there is this girl in my algebra class i really like, but that is the only time i am around her for more than 1 second. I dont know where she lives, much less email address. I have friends that can see her for a longer period of time should i have one of my friends tell her i want to go out with her??
2006-09-13 15:25:39 · 25 answers · asked by king cobra 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she doesn't know who you are and you two haven't interacted, having your friends tell her you like her might not do any good. She might be like, "Uh, I don't even know this guy!"
A better idea would be for you to strike up a conversation with her in class -- that way you can get to know her, and she you. You can start talking about something in class to break the ice, then take it from there.
2006-09-13 15:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by I ♥ AUG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, start up a conversation in class. Or better yet, try and walk in or out of class with her, as by accident, then maybe give her a smile. Nothing cheesy just a nice smile. Than maybe a few days later ask her her name and introduce yourself in passing, once again. Than a few days later, depending on which one of you better understands algebra, ask her if she understood problem 3? Or (if your the better student) ask her if she did okay on the test? worksheet . . .whatever. Than ask her if she would like to study with you. Now you've created some time for you to spend together, without any pressure. Get to know here and eventually, if you're still interested at that point, ask her if she'd like to go check out a movie, grab a bite to eat or whatever you both have as a common interest.
I always found that by taking a little time and not putting either party under unnecessary pressure, things always went smoother. Get to know a little about one another. Than after you're comfortable with one another than take the next step.
Always remember this, women are suckers for a great (sincere) smile. Unless your all snaggle toothed and your teeth are bright yellow, it's a great asset and it will go a long way with the ladies. Another big draw is be confident, even if you aren't. Women like a guy who appears confident in his demeanor.
This was always my method, when I was in school. Sure, by taking your sweet time, sometimes you'd miss out. But, it's always a better date if you start out already knowing something about one another. It kinda prevents the akward evening of blank stares.
Oh yea, one more thing, don't let your friends ask for you. BAD Idea. Don't ask her out by e-mail either.
Good Luck
2006-09-13 22:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by De Expert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out when you see her in class. It's a turn off when you have to have other people tell the person you like that you want to go out with em. Ask for her number and work from there.
2006-09-13 22:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Bre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her one day when walking or waiting for class, or whatever, and talk to her. Strike up a conversation. Ask her about herself, be confident and smile. If she knocks you back, try again with someone else. If she responds, you might be able to ask for her phone nmuber, or you could give her your email address. You don't need your friends to arrange anything- it'll be far more natural and less pressured if you just do it yourself.
2006-09-13 22:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to study with you. You could ask her if she could meet you in the library or something so that she isn't creeped out. That way, if she isn't interested in you for dating, you don't come off looking bad. You can just say you asked for some algebra help. But if you get to know her and she gets to liking you then you can ask her out on a real date. Good luck.
2006-09-13 22:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't tell one of your friends to ask her to go out with you, that is lame. You have a class with her so you should start talking with her and maybe ask if she has plans for the weekend and ask her out if you get along. If you have somebody else ask her out for you she'll probably think your a little off your rocker. Good Luck
2006-09-13 22:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by horrorfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your friend know that u are crushing on the girl. Then casually work your way in. If it is all of a sudden then it will look forced and not work out in your favor. Just talk to her then u do the asking out!
2006-09-13 22:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by ShaRay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! nothing is wimpier than a guy having his friends ask a girl out. instead try to hang out with ur friends that r her friends too. try and plan a big movie night, where she is there. u need to get to know her better before u make a move. then u will have a better chance of her saying yes
2006-09-13 22:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your friends aren't too fearful to ask her out, what brave friends you have! The only thing you need friends to do for you is to find out more about her...like does she already have boyfriend? As far as asking her out, you have to stand up and do it yourself...otherwise, why should she respect you?
Put on your game face, gather up whatever courage you can muster, and pretend you are somebody worth talking to...then go and talk to her. Ask her out yourself.
2006-09-14 15:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to try to be friends with her first and then work your way up. You don't want her to think that you are stalking her. You can't say that you like her when you don't even know her that well! Get to know her before you can actually say that you like her.
2006-09-13 22:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by trancelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋