2006-09-13 15:06:23 · 19 answers · asked by Olivia 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
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2006-09-13 15:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by bloomquist324 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First leave your stupid drunk husband. Start saveing some money, continue until you have some money (the money that your stupid husband spends on his drinks etc etc ) to move out, move out and still continue working but look for another job, once you find another job, quit this lousy sad job and go a new job, your problems are not over yet, plan your life and continue improving and do it for yourself and your kids (if you have any). If you dont then be care ful and get knocked up by the time you leave your stupid husband or by someother honey guy that comes around. remember its your life and you have to be in control each and every second. Good luck................
2006-09-13 15:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can look for another job, you didn't say what you do, but going back to school is always an option, you can apply for help, depends where you live.
If your husband is a drunk and you still love him, it is an illness, try going to Alanon meetings they are very good at helping you work things out. Keep your chin up and don't give up I'm rooting for you. God Bless
2006-09-13 15:16:48 · answer #3 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your options?
Look at your options very carefully and choose the one that means the best life for you.
Find a better job but don't quit the one you have till you have a better one.
Find an ALANON group and start going to meetings so you can learn how to take control of your life even if your husband is an alcoholic.
Good luck!
2006-09-13 15:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Diane D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this one at a time:
You hate your job. Start looking around for a better one. My guess is you can't quit until you can replace your income.
You're broke. Start stashing cash where no one, especially your lush husband, will find it.
Your husband's a drunk. Either you love him or you don't. If you do, get him to AA. If you don't, leave him.
2006-09-13 15:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by szydkids 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of your drunk husband. i don't know where you live but a non contested divorce wher i live is like $40.00. if you don't have that much money, then find a lawyer who does probono work. after you get rid of him and you aren't paying for his beer/alcohol all of the time..plus his food and what nots you'll notice that you are saving some money. get a room mate to save more money. keep the job you have though until you can find something new.....apply for a pale grant...take night (or day) classes a community college or some where. then in a couple of years you can make even more money.( you could go on a vaction as a reward for graduating from college)
2006-09-13 15:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by searching4something 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if yuo hate your job you are broke and your husband is a drunk I would quit my job so he can't spend the money on booze and tell him to get off of his drunken lazy *** and work two jobs if he works at all to support his family and buy his own booze.
2006-09-13 15:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to school and get a degree in something you like, and then leave your husband. I did that to my wife and I took the child also. But don't quite your job until you are able to get another one. Jobs are to hard to find.
2006-09-13 15:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for something that you like....but dont quit your current job until you get a new one....
Send you husband to a rehab center he can be there for at least 1 month and maybe that is what you need to think with calm your situation and go for the right path.....good luck
2006-09-13 15:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Divorce the JERK immediately -- pack his bags, give him the "heave ho" out the door, throw his stuff out after him, and get on with your life.
2. IF you hate your job -- go back for more training -- and find a BETTER Job by applying yourself to the training (after your job).
3. IF you are broke -- stop with the Credit Cards, eating out, going to the movies, you know the routine -- expenses that are NOT necessary to support your basic living needs.
2006-09-13 15:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do is work as hard as possible make sure that you have a joint checking account and the first time that there is any kind of money in there (hopefully some of his)......take it and leave. Or you can ask for a small raise. If you email me and tell me what state you are in or around I might be able to help. josiedickelman@yahoo.com
2006-09-13 15:19:42 · answer #11 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋