All guys look. It comes with the territory. But its one thing to glance at and notice, and its completely another to gawk and ogle. Anyhow, guys in serious relationships usually have the common sense to not stare at other women when they're WITH their own girlfriend. If he does that, then he deserves a fwak in the head. Use your own judgement. And don't be hypocritical. Do you do the same when he's around and a good looking guy passes you by?
2006-09-13 14:51:11
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answered by Redrum 2
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First off you are listing to a radio personality that makes contraversy to get ratings. To even give this lowlife any credibility is not wise.
I am a man and when I was a teen I never looked a women or girls in a disrespecful way, I wasn't looking at them in a sexual way and into my early twenties.
My father showed me by his example how a woman should be treated by showing affection and love towards my mother in front of us children you know the sweet kiss on the cheek and the cute nick names. He also demonstrated his position as a "real MAN" when it was just he and I out on errands. He never told me "look at that hot babe" nor did he do that in his actions. He loved his wife (my mom).
I thank him for that. Moral integrity and Character. Men like my dad and myself (married for eight years three children and still don't do this) are far and few between.
On a male with no self respect acts this way and cannot portray respect in return.
We are out there, we are ridiculed, but we have nothing to prove and we are snatched up by real women fast. So keep looking.
I wish you well and I am sorry you seek the media for your societal information.
2006-09-13 14:53:19
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answered by Martin M 2
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Although I can't speak for women, I can say with a 99% of being correct that all men look at other women. It's what we do, its part of our genetic make-up. This looking is not being disrespectful or sexually deviant, its just what all men do.
Now, I must say that most men are aware of this characteristic and do not overtly disrespect either the other woman or his woman. Most of us are discreet enough to know what we share with our lady, and what we can do, but not share. Its not healthy for me to tell my wife I look around. But, I only look. I dare not touch. If I do touch I have too much to lose, which is my wife who I love dearly.
It's like my wife says, when I quit looking, then she'll know its time to put me 6 feet below in a pine box. Looking is healthy, but I touch, and she says, "It's may a-s-s!"
TX Guy
2006-09-13 14:54:54
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answered by txguy8800 6
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I totally agree with you. I mean you can have a boyfriend but still look at another guy and think he's hot. The same idea goes for guys. Its human nature to like the things we like. The only difference is when you are committed to someone else, you are less inclined to want to go any further than just looking.
2006-09-13 14:55:52
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answered by Isabel 2
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Lets just say I have a pretty damn satisfying sex life.
That being said...
There is a difference between looking at other women because they are pleasing to the eye and looking at other women with sexual desire. I see other women, and can appreciate beauty or even find them sexy, but that doesn't mean that I am fantasizing about them or would even have sex with them if given the opportunity.
My wife is a mature, and self confident woman that takes pleasure in pleasing her man. She is not offended if I notice another woman because she knows that when I go to bed at night its her that I want to be with.
2006-09-13 14:53:04
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answered by David P 3
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Well, he does have the age and experience. I believe that it is only human nature to 'check out' other men and women even if you are satisfied. My husband and I both do it we will knock down any one that hits on either of us like I'll give dirty looks to women and he'll do the same for men. But it's natural it's our instincts to notice the opposite sex.
2006-09-13 14:49:22
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answered by Fallon V 4
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You would just be deluding yourself if you believed that there are men out there who don't look at women. Even if they are satisfied in relationships, everyone has an innate appreciation of beauty and they will continue to look. The rule in committed relationships should be "look but don't touch!".
2006-09-13 14:49:06
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answered by Trillian 6
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I doubt it!
But just cause a guy looks at other women doesn't mean he is going to cheat or something. Looking at someone and going after them is not the same thing.
2006-09-13 14:49:54
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answered by mikayla_starstuff 5
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The only men I know that don't look at other woman are; Stevie Wonder, Ray Charles
2006-09-13 14:55:13
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes there are men that don't look at other women, we refer to them as gay. Most men look at other women it's a natural reflex like a kid with a nice bike, he is always going to look at the newer flashier bike when it passes!
2006-09-13 15:07:13
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answered by GHV 2
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