Lately I have been hanging out with this girl that I kinda like but She has a boyfriend. Nothing has happened between us but she has stayed at my place and on 1 occasion stayed at the bar with me while her b/f went home, she ended up crashing on my couch. Am I just a good freind or am i missing something from her. I don't want to ask her and interupt her relationship
2006-09-13 14:42:43 · 8 answers · asked by mlingen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like maybe she's confused as to what she wants. cause she's still going out with her bf, but she's spending the night at ur house and everything, i don't know how long you've known her but usually girls won't do that unless they really know someone or like them. i would give her some more time so she can make up her mind
2006-09-13 14:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully, just a good friend. It really depends on what you do. You can be a friend, and be nice with her, or you can be a guy and try to make a move on her. Probable outcome:
1. NICE - having a valuable friend forever.
2. GUY - read her wrong, lose a friend (her), lose a friend (boyfriend) and if he's so inclined, maybe lose some teeth.
3. GUY - maybe get intimate, but then nagging guilt of leaving her previous boyfriend could result in a short-lived relationship, or worse, long term but hostile relationship.
2006-09-13 21:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by Carl S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is using you and playing him...
And I have to ask, would you really want a girl hung out with a guy friend at a bar and crashed on his couch leaving a question like yours in the other guys mind?
2006-09-13 21:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell it like it is ok
and do not involve yourself
to much and do not allow your place to become
a crash place. Sometimes a girl is pregnant
and she knows it and it is the early stages.
And you may be on the Verge of a luring situation
or possibly a relationship you may not need
and one that may not even work out.
Do not be a sap just be aware of all possibilities
And keep your self respect
2006-09-13 21:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a good friend and she feels safe with you. Keep doing what you're doing and let her make the first move. Good Luck
2006-09-13 21:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by risa131313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hint to her that you like her but don't be to detailed make it into a joke and see what she says then after that keep bringing the subject up until she knows hoe you feel then ma-by she will tell you if there's any feelings for you .
2006-09-13 21:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has not said anything or broken up with man or even gave you a hint that she likes you then yea u are just a good firend. thats what this sounds like but im not their.
2006-09-13 21:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by darkvamp4542 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just a good friend.
2006-09-13 21:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋