Okay..there is this boy..which I really like..matter as a fact I love him with all my heart..but im not even going out with him and he called me a player because I was flirting with other guys. He is dating my bestfriend and is my other bestfriend's x-bf..I cant stand to see him with my bestfriend because I LOVE him sooo much. please help me..
2006-09-13 14:39:47 · 16 answers · asked by saweet_chick_lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your problem is that you fell for him in the first place. doh!
youre gonna have to build some inner strength and let him go.
heres why, based on what you wrote:
1) he is taken and is dating your best friend
2) you may be in LOVE with him, but he does not share your feelings back.
3)you dived in too deep into someone who is NOT YOURS.
hes happy and your best friend is happy.
best advice i can give is reduce the amount of time you see this person. your feelings will not fade if you always see them. start dating with someone else, you will be happier. you will be able to drop your feelings or focus your feeling towards your new bo.
-hope that helps - dave
2006-09-13 14:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad situation is right, but not for you. I'm sorry but how can you say you are a bestfriend if you want her boyfriend? You need to make a decision here. Guys will come and go but friends are to last a lifetime. It sounds like you have forgotten that.
2006-09-13 14:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by val h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see....you gotta give it up, its a hard thing to do but if hes with ur bestfriend then you cant change that, boyfriends come and go but friends can last a long time. Id suggest that you try hard to forget about him and look for a new guy, someone better than him...
2006-09-13 14:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 23:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by lander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have some major issues. IS HE THE LAST GUY ON THE PLANET?? you and your friends have dated, are dating, and want to date the same guy. what the hell is wrong with this picture? sweetie, move on and look for someone better. this guy is playing you and your friends and don't even know it. how can you love this guy and you've never even been with him?? wake up and smell the stinking roses!!
2006-09-13 14:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by Chris E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u only think that u are in love with him but if u do go out with him u start to see that you didnt love him at all u see that it was just another boy u liked trust me ive been there before with this boy i found out he was other boy i liked but soon you will under stand that he is just another boy
2006-09-13 14:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel!! Whenever I love or like a boy, I am always to shy to say anything, and he goes out with my good friend and I hate it!!! If he called you a player then he is a craphead...? And it's hard not to flirt with othe boys :]
2006-09-13 14:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u in highskool or junior high? why do you girls end up dating the same guy as ur friend?? i doubt you LOVE him its probably just someone that you like more than anyone else youve liked. plus do you prefer having a friend or losing one and possible getting a boyfriend? answer that and you have the answer to ur problem
2006-09-13 14:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jaime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need professional help. Why would you want to be with your best friends man and 2nd best friends left overs. You seem like you're mad that you are missing (you think) something. Find your own man and move on.
2006-09-13 14:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by hotkitten152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are "best friends" with this girl then no man should come between you two-but if you aren't so BFF with her like it sounds in your Question then be prepared to lose your friend-possibly both of them girls.
2006-09-13 14:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by bbeautiful_me22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋