2006-09-13 14:36:35 · 14 answers · asked by Me 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
no, but sit down and talk to him, look him in the eyes and tell him son i love you and always will love you, but i dont want secrets in our house, i know you probably dont want to talk about the other nite but i do, i want to know if you find guys attractive and if he say yes just tell him you support him 100 percent because you can not change a person, you can only make a person feel strong.l
2006-09-13 15:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by jada 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't mean he's gay. It means he normal and curious. Everyone is curious about what other people look like. Just because he's looking doesn't mean he's looking to get aroused. He might just be trying to figure out if he looks normal (whatever normal is).
My best advice is to just act like it's not a big deal or at least don't make it out the be the end of the world. Because later if he has questions about sex, with a male or female, you'd want him to feel comfortable coming to you and asking (as opposed to getting bad information off the street or from friends, etc). If you make too big of a deal out of it, he won't ever want to talk to you about it.
If he's younger, you might want to use this as an opourtunity to explain the birds & bees. If he's older & you're against porn in your home, you might want to appologize for walking in on him and say you understand that everyone is curious about things but that porn isn't allowed in your home because it goes against your morals, etc.
Anyway, no it doesn't mean he's gay.
Good luck!
2006-09-13 22:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Girl named Sue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, consider his age,how he got it, and were there choices available to him gay vs. straight porn. Kids are just curious. If you think he might be gay, he needs your support now more than ever.
2006-09-13 22:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Laura G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's curious and just wanted to look...I would talk to him about it. I know it is a difficult subject, but it's good to talk to your children. Maybe he clicked on a link by accident and it took him to a gay porn site. My only answer is you won't know unless you ask him.
2006-09-14 01:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi Kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you are pretty strick on him on dating? if that is the case then you need to let up on the raines a little all kids rebell like this if they can not date the oppisite sex and once they do most all boy forget that gay stuff unless he is truely set.
2006-09-13 21:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i wonder how many of these questions are made up. If you do not know any more than that about your kid you are not close enough. Talk to him b4 he trys something and is sorry. Porn is something people get adDICKted to.
2006-09-13 22:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter? He was the same good child he was yesterday. The one you loved with all you're heart and soul. Would you hate him now because of some pictures and who he loves? Then the problem is not with him, its with you.
2006-09-13 21:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's curious
And as a parent you shouldn't judge him because of it or jump to conclusions
2006-09-13 23:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Kayte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i looked at playboys when i was young and i didnt turn out to be a lesbian I looked at them because I wanted to know what a mature female body looked like.
2006-09-13 21:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really. can't imagine him looking at encyclopedias that are boring when he can get a hold of porn.....
2006-09-13 21:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by sheree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋