Women have their list of what they are looking for in men- tall, dark, handsome, smart, can make them laugh, makes lots of money, physically fit, have their own place to live, sensitive, romantic, gentleman, express his feeling, communicate, bad boy, etc, etc- can one man possess all these qualities- or is it just a fantasy that will never come true.
2006-09-13 14:16:19 · 21 answers · asked by roydono 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not a fantasy. You just have to wait for the right guy. That's why girls think all guys are jerks, and why girls are with jerks, because they settle for less; because they believe they will never find a guy like that.
2006-09-13 14:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by grenworthshero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I make that very list just as I was getting out of a bad relationship.
One year later I met my future husband in Spain and we now live in San Diego together..... I found that list when moving house and he is absolutely everything that I had described. We have been together for 3 years now and still the fantasy is my reality. So to the men: you may be on some girls list and to the women: Keep making lists and dream big!
2006-09-13 14:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by LondonLou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has wish lists but unless you are completely unrealistic you know that no one possesses all these qualities. In the end, love is a manner of the heart and all the lists in the world aren't going to dictate who that will be. Life would be simpler if love was a take out menu but it's not.
And don't forget...men have their lists too - tall, thin, blond, large breasts, smart, funny, likes sports, etc.
Hope this helps
2006-09-13 14:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible for a guy to have all of these qualities but it is rare and it does not mean he is perfect. For example, he could have all of the qualities listed but have a really small penis or never want to go out or be possessive or whatever. Nobody is perfect. However, the more of these qualities he has the better a catch he is. Same for girls too.
2006-09-13 14:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by sosickofred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way... You are looking in the newspaper/internet for a job and you come across one job you really like. But you notice you don't fit all the qualifications though. Do you A.) Apply for it anyways or B.) Don't apply because you don't fit all qualifications. When employers put a posting of a job up they are putting their ideal candidate they want. When they hire people you'll notice the person doesn't fit all the qualifications but yet he got the job. Think it the same with the "women's list."
2006-09-13 14:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by B.J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of a woman's list of what they want is in fact fantasy, the humanistic qualities are likely what a woman truly wants. there still has to be physical attraction, and everone has different attactions. most of the time a woman's 'list' isn't completely filled, but she learns to love the things that she never even thought to put on the list.
2006-09-13 14:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women may find that the guy they end up meeting does not meet there list but they love him anyway or they may find the guy does meet the list but they are just not compatible. In the end what we are looking for and what we find can be totally different.
2006-09-13 14:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by answergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of those things would be the perfect man,and there is no such thing.She may get some of those things and be satisfied,others will want it all and be very disappointed,continuously searching for the perfect man,then the rest won't care as long as it's a man.
2006-09-13 14:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That may be the ideal man women may be attracted to. But in the grand scheme of things, it would be nearly impossible to find all those characteristics in just one person.
2006-09-13 14:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's usually a fantasy. However, what the guy lacks in one area, he makes up for in others.
2006-09-13 14:18:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋