I'm a guy and I was walking down the hallway of my coed dorm when I over heard a girl say she saw 5 really hot guys. I couldn't help but wonder if I was in that category or not. Maybe I'm just an average hot guy or maybe I'm not hot..I don't know. What do you girls find physically attractive in a guy? (Muscles, face, shoulders, hair, ***?) I'm trying to figure out what category I'm in and what I need to work on. Thanks
2006-09-13 14:10:21 · 29 answers · asked by Maximus D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All women find different qualities attractive. I like physically...nice teeth, strong shoulders / back, tallness, etc... I don't like big muscles or anything dumb like that. Just clean cut, strong men.
Non-physical...make me laugh. Make me feel beautiful & special. Listen when I am talking, even if you don't think it's important. Hold me when I cry, don't say "what the hell are you crying for?"
2006-09-13 14:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl is different. What makes a girl attractive to you? Sometimes her smile. Other times the way her hairs whips across her face. Maybe a cute laugh? Hardly any girl will naturally possess all of the traits you're looking for... and vice- versa. It's about standing out from the crowd. Being unique. What talents do you have? Are you always the gentleman? What's in your closet- are you organized and dressed well (that means no holey jeans or tees)? Do you enjoy working out? Building up a physique is never a harmful thing. I like to know my man can protect me. It depends upon the girl. The best way to find out? Just ask her. If she says no, then that's okay. There are plenty of others to choose from who you may be better suited with anyways.
2006-09-13 21:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by sportyblush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maximus, I've looked at all the other questions you've asked and I'm afraid to tell you that you have quite the issue with insecurity. Women do NOT find that attractive. We can't put you into a category if we don't have a picture. If you are looking to boost your ego, then sure, you're hot as hell! If you want honesty...well, then I'd have to say, stop worrying about what everyone else thinks and just be yourself. You are in college, this is no longer high school sweetheart stuff.
2006-09-13 21:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sadly there is no definite answer to this question. What I find hot on a guy is facial hair and a little body hair, but I know girls from college that made their boyfriends wax. I like geeky guys (glasses, and wearing a shirt that would look good with a tie) and my girlfriends liked guys that were more jock types or musicians.
2006-09-13 21:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by Lib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not too picky but the guy can NOT have huge bulging muscles or be stick thin he should be toned if he has a lil fat on him well so what that wouldn't be a bad thing... other than that a nice confident clean smile is all I really need if he is treating me right.
I also like amynicole's answer
2006-09-13 21:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by aNgelzNight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What one girl would find hot may not be what another girl may find hot. It really depends on the girl. You could have a striking physical feature that puts you in this category. I don't know what you look like so I can't even wager a guess.
2006-09-13 21:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by Trillian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's hot in a guy? sincerity, honesty, good listening skills, manners, respect for others, good hygiene, and maybe a tiny bit of vulnerability showing through the self confidence. Look, the vast majority of guys out there are average looking, and you still see great girls with them all the time. We're not nearly as visually oriented as guys are, so we really only need you to look good enough, but to have all the inner qualities we seek. Most girls who see a "hot guy" are admiring his self-confidence and maybe his good fashion sense, but that's only gonna' get you so far. Most girls dig inner beauty. (But it's true, we're checking out your shoes, your watch, and the brand of blue jeans you wear. All signs that a guy's making an effort with his look.)
good luck!
2006-09-13 21:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl is different. Some like a nice riped body others like the teddy bear look(nice biceps and shoulders with a softer looking tummy) others take notice of things like hair eyes smile butt. but you should focus on being happy with yourself not what a bunch of girls think. Once you are happy with yourself the girls that find you hot will double. We all love confidence just not cocky i love myself attuide. so know you look good but know it doesnt matter bc the right girl is gonna love you no matter what
2006-09-13 21:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a hard one everyone finds different things attractive
my sister goes for the 80's rocker look (still)
I like guys with no hair bald or crew, stocky frame.
my cousin Angie likes tall skinny guys
my cousin tina likes body builder types
It is very complicated good luck
ps physical looks aren't the only things that make them hot.
If guys are nice to girls then they can be hot
2006-09-13 21:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i look for the arms, smile, personality and sense of humor! I like a guy that can make me laugh, and a guy that likes me for me! If you really wana know be happy with the way you look! There is a girl out there that will love you for you!
2006-09-13 21:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by country_cowgirl2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋