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ok now i talked to him todaybecuz he called me becuz he didnt go to church today and asked me if his cousin was there and i told him yeah then he said bye and hung up the phone.
later on me and his cousin and the pastor were talking and we all decided to go out to lunch on friday. then the pastor started joking about how the cousin was paying and the cousin said he woyld pay for my lunch. later the cousin asked to see my phone and put his number in even though i didnt ask him to and asked me would i call him tonight. i dont know what to do becuz i think the cousin could be a really nice friend but at the same time i dont want to seem like the church wh0re and i dnt want the other boy any madder. i want to ask him how he would feel if i called his cousin but im not the type to start the drama between cousins. what to do
2006-09-13 14:09:06 · 5 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If u go with one of them, then u are starting stuff between cousins. I wouldn't care bout the other cousin because he could have hold a little conversation with u, instead of asking bout his cousin and hanging up. It is not like u are going to go with him you are just calling him.
2006-09-13 14:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by trey of spade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to chill it completely with the first guy, because he sounds very unstable. Perhaps some mental issues you don't know about or quick tempered. Explain to the cousin that you would like to be friends but you don't want any conflict. I don't think you are going to be able to reason with the first guy anyway and he shouldn't , or has no reason to be angry with you over the phone calls.
2006-09-13 21:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to look at the big picture here, first of all, the first guy you thought was nice sounds like a mad man. He seems to me like a stalker waiting to happen. My advise to you is to leave them both in the dust. If you date the cousin you will end up getting more and more negative feedback from the stalker guy.
2006-09-13 21:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by val h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ay chiwawa =/ if this "cousin" fellow is nice, what's the harm? you won't seem like a slut
2006-09-13 21:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless your gona have sex whats the problem??? ITS ONLY A PHONE CALL!!!
2006-09-13 21:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by rhisklee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋