give some advice please
2006-09-13 14:07:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-13 14:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by The::Mega 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The best place to find men is at school. I'm over 40 and taking classes at a local college. You get to know people in a safe environment, you get to have a lot of friends, and then your friends can become your boyfriends, or hook you up with one of their friends. I have been taking classes for years and I always have somebody to call or somebody calls me, or we all go out after class--it has been a lot of fun.
Another way I have been told to find romance is to volunteer for the United Way. I know that sounds weird, and I'm sure they don't want anybody thinking of them as a dating service, but it's kind of the same principle as above. Think about it--are these people the type of people who are going to pick you up at a bar, give you some disease that night, then never call you again? NO, these are good people, and some of them are cute.
2006-09-13 14:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by sixgun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You live your life to the fullest and enjoy the company of good friends and family. Nobody ever said that you had to have a boyfriend to be happy, of course it would be nice at times. You can't live your life in limbo just waiting for that special guy to come along, most likely it will happen when you least expect it, that seems to be a universal law. Enjoy life, it will happen when the time is right and not a moment before....
2006-09-13 14:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-13 14:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out with friends, find hobbies, etc. Not having a boyfriend isn't the end of the world, and I'm of the opinion that people need to love themselves before they can successfully get into a loving relationship with others.
There's personals sites to help you meet people, though. They're becoming increasingly more popular, because it is NOT easy to get out there and be fortunate enough to meet someone who is your type. I know three couples who have met through personals sites and gotten married.
2006-09-13 14:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not a matter of not finding one. It is finding the right person for you.
Advice? Keep looking and take your time. If you start to get desperate guys will pick up on that and take advantage of you.
2006-09-13 14:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get on with my life. I just do whatever I would normally do, just without a boyfriend. If I come across someone I like and who likes me, then great, I'm not going to stop living just because I'm alone.
2006-09-13 14:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by crane2watch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont go out looking for a boyfriend. youll know when youve found him. just be yourself, and eventually a guy will come along and love you for you, and not for the person your pretending to be just because you want a boyfriend. but, if your into meeting new people, join some clubs or sports. ask your friends to introduce you to some of their guy friends, or hang out with friends and ask them to invite some guys.
2006-09-13 14:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by turntabl3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't look too hard. It seems alot of times good things come into our lives when we least expect it.
2006-09-13 14:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for them.
That makes you seem desperate.
I'm telling you...
Just have self-confidence,
And the men will come pouring in.
Good luck!
2006-09-13 14:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by Katelyn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about becoming a nun? lolz kidding how about trying harder to find then and change the approach u are taking right now do take different appraoch to find a guy of ur type he is there soemwhere.........................
2006-09-13 14:09:44 · answer #11 · answered by Vinny C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋