He cheated on me a number of months ago and his actions do not allow me to regain trust - so I broke up with him. I still love him and I know he loves me, but I can't live the rollercoaster of emotions. How do I get over this and move on?
2006-09-13 14:07:07 · 8 answers · asked by sannic519 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Booze. Drugs. Mindless sex with strangers.
It all helps heal those wounds. It all helps get incurable infections, though.
So you might as well stick with Time, the Great Healer.
2006-09-13 14:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm in the same boat. She stopped seeing me 6 months ago, but I still think of her all of the time. She was seeing someone else, for quite a while I guess. I want her back, but I am reminded that she will just keep doing what she does. Some people just are not at a time in life that they can have a committed relationship. That's where she it, and maybe your ex is too? I'm trying to remind myself of the pain, as hard as that is. Every time she enters my thoughts - I just remember some of the bad times. Good luck. I know how you feel.
2006-09-13 21:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by missouri bulldog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once in the same boat as you (with my ex fiance for 8 years and he cheated and cheated and cheated) finally after the 8 years of total anguish, embarrassment, hurt and pain, I let him go. Best thing I ever did! Now I am married to the most wonderful man ever to be invented lol! Time is the only remedy. And it may seem rough, but trust me, you are better for leaving. Someone is out there for you hun. Trust me and the right one would not cheat on you for anything in the world. Good luck to you.
2006-09-13 21:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by ♪♫♪justpassingby♪♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to remind yourself of how and what you felt when you learned he had been cheating on you. Certainly you do not want to spend the rest of your life with someone like that, always wondering where they are or who they are with.
And an emotional rollercoaster is certainly not healthy in regards to your mental and physical health and well-being.
2006-09-13 21:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a few deep breaths. figure out what you want in life. make up your mind that you are going to be without him from now on. dont make the mistake of spending another night with him. dont do things that you did with him.
time does heal wounds. it takes a long long time. sometimes when you think that you are finally over it, it hits you again.
give yourself time to heal. decide what you like and who you are and be the person that you want to be just make sure that he has no part of your new life.
2006-09-13 21:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone -- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Trying to forget someone you loved is like trying to remember someone you never knew
you never really stop loving someone. you just learn to try to live without them
Life goes on and so should you,as hard and as sad as it seems.
God bless!!!
2006-09-13 21:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time, and distractions (i.e. activities, new love interests, etc.). Good luck!
P.S. If you ever think of getting back with him (i.e. a weak moment), think of all the pain he caused you when he cheated on you.
2006-09-13 21:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok maybe you should stay away till you find someone who u will love forever and they would never hurt you then try being just friends and you will have a happy ending hope it helps
2006-09-13 21:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋