what do you do if you like your boyfriend as more than a friend but lost interest in becoming more?
i have this problem but the guy is in love with me or claims to be and wont let me go without a fight. he it's not him and he is really sweet but im just no longer interested in the relationship. is this wrong what should i do?
2006-09-13 14:05:08 · 14 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong and you shouldn't feel guilty about how you feel. It's going to be hard to get him to understand that you just want to be friends again.
2006-09-13 14:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off follow ur heart. If he is sweet and has a great personality..hunnie I wouldn't pass that up. Maybe when u guys start to date u will be more interested..give it a shot and if ur not interested..tell him u dont like him like that but u can be friends..GO FOR IT!
2006-09-13 21:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by saweet_chick_lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't necessarily control how you feel towards someone, so I don't think it's accurate to say it is "wrong". As for him, I give him great respect for fighting for what he cares for! That's rare in this world. If you don't feel the same way anymore, why don't you just break up with him and tell him that your feelings have changed? The truth works wonders...
2006-09-13 21:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know being stuck in a relationship that you don't feel fulfilled isn't fun. Don't stay in it.. Yes you don't want to hurt him. but really he has to find the correct one and the sooner you let him go to do that the better.. His pain will get easier with time. But you need to get out there too. Have fun looking. Be strong and get what you want.
2006-09-13 21:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are yu sure about those assumptions, what sort of fight?
Does he love you or just claim to? How do you know? Why are you not interested? What do you want to do?
2006-09-13 21:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by agropelter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with him and tell him how you really feel. The longer you hang on to him the harder it will be for both of us and he will get hurt more. Just tell him and get it over with.
2006-09-13 21:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by JUSTME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one!!
ask him why likes u and what he wants from you. if you cannot do them, suggest a temporary cease-fire.. ask for a time-break away from each other, but you have to suggest a time period -one week- and why.. -just tell him that they are many things bothers you in your mind and need time to resolve them alone, he'll understand if he loves you..
take some time to think about u and him.. don't waste it on beer and TV..
2006-09-13 21:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by KnightSaber2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him about your feelings With somebody with you because in case he tries to do something stupid. Plus he can't say a different story because you have a witness.
2006-09-13 21:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by MARIA L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can have a talk with him let him know you feel or you and him take a break give it time good luck to the both of you
2006-09-13 21:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just nature hon. You're probably too young to be having that exclusive relationship. Cut him loose.
2006-09-13 21:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋