without it being awkward, and if u just met her.
2006-09-13 13:59:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess you can play a game. Go to the bar with her and just point to random people and just guess how many people that person slept with. And hopefully she'll join in and guess with you. And just throw in there "I'm guessing you slept this many people." Of course if she feels uncomfortable about it don't push it out of her.
But really why would you want to know? I mean it's really her business and her's alone. If she really wants to share that information then she will but most likely she isn't.
2006-09-13 14:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by B.J. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A majority on here say "You Don't." I agree.
Once you get to know her, you may not even think of asking. You'll just know you can trust her. If not, then why bother with the relationship to begin with? Unless you're only after one thing anyways...
That's a sure way not to score with anyone. It's nosy, rude, and gives her a bad impression of You. She may then think that's all you want. What would you think of her if she asked you such a question?
Be up front and honest about who You are. Show you have respect for both of you. And if she's a match, she will do the same for you. You have to be comfortable around each other first before revealing such things, otherwise the pressure is just too much.
2006-09-13 21:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by sportyblush 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't really it doesn't matter if she isn't a virgin when you meet her she has a past. You probably do as well. The only concern is that your in the driver seat now, and that's all that matters. Plus you don't want to know if its two or twenty either number will seem like too much. Plus without being awkward yea right that's not possible. Its just one of those questions you don't need to know. Use protection she will show her sexual history in the bed room if she's experienced good if she is not its still all good. If she gives herself to you sexually you should just enjoy being with her.
2006-09-13 21:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by newburg_2_fine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't ask a woman you just met a question like this!!!
2006-09-13 21:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by Linda R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you just met you shouldn't ask, but if you get into a sexual relationship with her then you ask (before the sex) be prepared to tell her how many partners you've had.
2006-09-13 21:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do You really want 2 know?
That's only going to complicate things and make you think about the NUMBER.
The more important question would be whether or not she used protection with her partners.
2006-09-13 21:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by Confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you never ask a women how many guys shes slept with. that right there can get you in serious trouble with her if you like her.
2006-09-13 21:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by helpful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I said regarding the same question for men:
"Ask a silly question, get a silly answer."
Rev. Fr. LeRoy F. Ryan, S.J.
(deceased)
2006-09-13 21:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't do it without it being awkward. If you're that worried about it then don't try to become one of them.
2006-09-13 21:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by Niche Jerk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't if she tells you that is her business. Would you want her to ask you how many women have you been with and would you give an honest answer
2006-09-13 21:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋