i broke up with my b/f of 1 year and moved out and got my own place. he was to immature and didnt take life or me seriously. i went and seen him for his bday the other night and ended up staying there, he was saying how he had a good thing going and let it go and that he realises that he needs to settle down... should i take HIM seriously???? i really love him and miss him like crazy.
2006-09-13 13:37:28 · 12 answers · asked by michelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Proof is in action not words. Give it a try if it works out GREAT!!! If his actions are not matching his words move on.
Everybody deserves one second chance.
2006-09-13 13:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should give him another chance if he messes up again you leave him for good and you never know if you could have conceive that night but the best thing to do is give him the benefit of a doubt because he says he knows better and he realizes that he made a mistake letting you leave the first time around so see where it goes from there for all you know he can be serious
2006-09-13 13:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take things slow for now, it does not go bad (smile) this way you can see if he has matured, stay where you are right now, but you and he can still see, each other, go out enjoy each others company, do fun things, in the long run, you will see if this is the one, you want to spend your life with.
2006-09-13 13:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that you can do is try. Keep your place for now just in case. If you want to be sure that he wants to settle down and not just have sex, then don't sleep with him until you are sure of what he wants.
2006-09-13 13:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by Desiree S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, yea that "had a good thing going" is probably a line, i've heard it before from multiple guys, you dont want to be stuck with someone who doesnt take you seriously and if u cant talk to them , whats the point?
2006-09-13 13:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answer your own question cause why did you move out , you can make your mouth say anything in the heat of a moment stay where you are it is hard but he needs to prove himself to you stay strong good luck
2006-09-13 13:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word here is he SAID that he has changed. Wait until you SEE the difference. Time and truth go hand in hand.
2006-09-13 13:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by lessonslearned 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
let him prove himself first before you go running back and hey if you like having sex with him its cool doesnt mean you have to live with him. i already know if i got a divorce today my husband and i would probably still have sex on occasion our divorcing would be because of other issues not sex issues.so you do what you like
2006-09-13 13:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow with him this time and do not move back in with him untill you are sure he has changed.
2006-09-13 13:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Biker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a trial run & see if he's changed any. if he hasn't, then it's time to say buh-bye.
2006-09-13 13:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋