i've spent thousands. i have to stop!
2006-09-13 13:27:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel as though I was supose to go on line and see this question! I go to a church here in Indiana and we had a speaker from this awesome ministry called www.xxxchurch.com and if you go to that website there are all different things you can do. There is an online recovery workshop (free). There is this free software as well. I didn't know how to explain it so I just copy and pasted this part
"Free X3watch Accountability Software
This is the thing you've been waiting for. Finally something you get for FREE that is actually going to help you. Imagine that!
Here is how X3watch works. Let's say you're browsing the Internet and you're looking at porn. The software makes a log of the porno site and then every two or four weeks your two designated accountability partners will get an email listing all the skin sites you've been on. Oh no-busted! Now that's what we call real accountability. No more secrets!"
The guys that run this site and ministry are awesome, you can even ask them a question, request prayer and all different kind of stuff!
I will pray for you and hope that my help, helped you. I know that any addiction is bad, this one particular one is tough to break because you have such an easy access to it with the computer being probably your worst enemy. Remember, God sees all sins the same, you are no worse or no better than anyone else. The great thing is, is that you know that you need help and that is just an awesome thing to get to the first step and admit to your addiction! Now, I hope that you can get the support and you can get a great plan for it all to go and leave out of your life!
2006-09-13 13:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 10:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately some men get addicted because women at those places are a lot more "fun" and "playful" as we would like all our women to be...
I have only gone to a strip club a handful of times and although I was uncomfortable somewhat, it still was a ton of fun and the girls treated me great... some even wanted a date! lmao
I suggest you cut back and find yourself a woman to have all the time
2006-09-13 13:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by benh316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to preach the Gospel of Jesus Christ to you but I will say this. What do you have to show for after spending all that money? Anything that you would be able to share with a loved one? When I was in the frame of mind that you are in now, I would ask myself... "Is this of benefit to me or someone I love?" For me the answer was always no. It is good that you recognize that you have to stop and I give you credit for that. I would recommend talking to someone about this such as a church leader, psychiatrist, church missionary, hypnotist, or someone you know who has high moral standards and is a cheapskate.
2006-09-13 13:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by brndnlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of all the porn stuff you have in your house and find people to hang with who will keep your mind occupied...see a therapist...get rid of your Internet!
2006-09-13 13:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slam your johnson in a door every time you think about one of those places. Sooner, rather than later, your johnson will talk you into finding new hobbies.
2006-09-13 13:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it was a mistake even going to one but good job for wanting to stop. For starters get a girlfriend she will fix you wanting to see naked girls
2006-09-13 13:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can but you Need a good woman to help and go to a good church.
2006-09-13 13:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by bigmike3323 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend a $100 on a dvd collection and have stay at home fun
2006-09-13 13:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
electroshock treatment. Or get to know the girls and hear about the horrible upbringing and molestation they have endured to take their clothes off for you.
2006-09-13 13:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋