I've been going out with this guy for a few years and we've both decided that we want to take our relationship to the next level. We have talked about sex, but don't know what the best way to go about it is (we're both vergins). We don't want to have to use condoms, but I don't want to get pregnant before im done school, so what would be the smartest way to keep from getting pregnant? any suggestions are much appreciated. Thanks a lot for any suggestions and information!
2006-09-13 13:16:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
the best way is-physically mentally and spiritually not to get pregnant-is u guessed it-respect yourself honor marriage-and each other-u got a good relation ship for 2 years better than most of the girls in your school that are pregnant with most of their 'b/f' promised to love them forever even after 3 years together had sex and it was all done-why respect another if they dont respect marriage Jesus or the other person--be real be the princess u ra ok thanks and get Jesus amazing grace i repented of being a slutty guy with my g/f in school and it saved both of us-we had dry humped but it was going to go to deep sin and soul tie against Jesus. peace up princess and join our 360 and keep ur self respect in creativity oohh yesss
2006-09-13 13:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you can go to the doctor and get on the pill or the patch or have the depo shot. There are foams that kill sperm. a doctor can implant an iud. most of the preventions are through a doc unless you want to use condoms. Make sure you are ready it is not 100% guarantee with any of the above and there is a slit chance you may still get pregnant so if you are totally against that then don't have sex at all wait. you waited this long may as well wait a while longer.
2006-09-13 13:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by njredgrl32 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, your gyn is the best person to talk to, and you will have to talk to him/her eventually in order to get birth control. It may be embarassing, but trust me, having to admit you are pregnant or ask for an abortion will be much worse. When you see your doctor, ask for the patch or the nuva ring. The patch you only change once per week and the ring is only once per month. That way you don't have to worry about whether you remembered your pills. Also, check about the availabilty of emergency contraception (the morning after pill). It's encouraging to see someone thinking before doing something like this, though really you should talk to your doctor first. And remember, if you do get birthcontrol, it won't be effective right away; with most of them you have to wait at least one week, two to be sure.
2006-09-13 13:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jensenfan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You and this guy all ready know the smartest way NOT to get pregnant, Why would you change it now?
Also, sex puts a strain on the relationship, it creates , jealousy, and fear of pregnancy, fear of getting caught. A financial burden if you TWO do get pregnant. Possibly a lifetime lost in full time home and financial care of a child before you are secure with your own world.
What do you want to be in life right now???----------------------
Well, forget it if either of you get pregnant, It takes two to get there, it takes two to get out of it!
Continue with the course of virginity until Marriage and you will both have a happier, calmer life!
2006-09-13 13:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by bugsie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go on the Pill? It has the added bonus of clearing up your skin and regulating your period. I'd also suggest the rhythm method, but seeing as you're both virgins, it won't work for you yet (it takes a bit of practise and lots of control on the boy's part).
Seriously though, just use a condom!
And I don't want to go all Brady Bunch on you, but if you're not ready to deal with the consequences of having sex, then maybe you should rethink your decision. There's lots of fun to be had without going all the way you know. Just try being more creative!
2006-09-13 13:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by the_fatmanwalksalone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to not have sex...no birth control is 100%. When I got pregnant with my daughter I was on the pill (taking it dilligently every day at 7am) AND we were using condoms every time...Dont ask me how it happend, but it did and now we are blessed with a beautiful baby girl. The best way not to get pregnant is to not have sex. When you are ready to take the huge responsibility of a child, then you are ready to have sex. Plain and simple. Just my advice though. Be careful!
2006-09-13 15:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by cleverness_444 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So who is the "we" that doesn't want to use condoms? Him?
The best way to avoid pregnancy is total abstinence. There is no 100% effective contraceptive way to block pregnancy. Even the pill is not 100% effective.
I STRONGLY suggest you use a condom and make sure that he puts it on. He might try to tell you he won't feel as good with one, but that's just crap. Besides, if he's a virgin, how would he know...?
Condoms prevent pregnancy and disease if used properly. NEVER let anyone talk you out of using them.
Get wise okay?
2006-09-13 13:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use condoms. You both may be virgins but some deadly transmitted diseases like Aids and Hepatitis can be caught without having sex, but spread through having sex. Condoms will also safeguard against pregnancy. This way you can kill 2 birds with one stone.
2006-09-13 13:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your horny and ready to go so im not going to tell you to wait or dont do it. my advice if you want to have sex anyway but you dont want to get pregnant is go for anal or oral. You shouldnt even rely on pulling out some still leaks out no matter what. I was in the porno industry for a few years and most of the girls had their tubes tied or were on the pill but some just took it and those we used condoms
2006-09-13 13:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Abstinence. If you object to that then get on some type of birth control or use condoms.
2006-09-13 14:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by rn.student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋