...I've been there and done that and everyone else I've seen in this situation has split up or been cheated on. Is it heading for disaster?
2006-09-13 13:14:33 · 15 answers · asked by y30man5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a hard one. the tendency is that someone will come along, just because u ain't there. I had a friend at uni who really liked this girl and they were mates at first, but the more and more time you spend with a girl, the more they get attached, her boyfriend cam like once a month from Cardiff (we were all at sunder land uni), but when he came, she hardly paid him too much attention, she split with him, saying long distance is too hard because he would never be there for her in her time of need. My mate is now married with a kid with that girl. I ain't saying she'll be shagging around, but some guy will be there all the time for her, and chances are she'll fall in love with him, BUT, A BIG BUT.............
If you been together like 5-10 years your relationship WILL last coz she loves you
2006-09-13 13:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It entirely depends on how devoted you are to one another, and if you have the slightest inkling that she'll cheat why are you still together? (or do you think you might cheat?) There can be no love without trust...I'm at uni and my bf isn't he has also been there done that...and I know I wont cheat and I'm positive he wouldn't...(I can see myself still with my guy in 50+ years...marriage, kids, the lot) So not everyone breaks up, yep it's gonna be hard on both of you, but if you have a little more faith in you're relationship, you may just find you get through it...
ttfn ;o)
2006-09-13 13:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Pan_24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually college is a time for experimentation, so there is a good probablity that if you don't split up now, there will be a break up in the near future, unless you two are completely and totally devoted to each other. Some people can make it work, but most just fall apart.
2006-09-13 13:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by a_soft_world 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im actually goin 2 a uni, where il b away from my gf... i trust her nd she trusts me, we'd never cheat on each other... dont think either of us plans on breaking up just because of 1 is goin 2 uni
2006-09-13 13:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you need to ask your self is "Does she sense an same way about me?". if you're getting an same correct degree at abode you receives in uni bypass again abode in case you fairly prefer to so undesirable. yet i for my section imagine you need to stay in uni in basic terms to experience it and be self sustaining. And in the experience that your female friend fairly loves you she might want to watch for you.! sturdy success.!x
2016-11-26 22:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool, she's going to the University of Northern Iowa. Good school.
2006-09-13 13:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love and trust each other, it will be fine. Just don't play the jealous card, that really turns chicks off.
2006-09-13 13:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by Kathiiy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r scared of competition, go to a gym, go for kick-boxing classes. join salsa classes and read a lot of books on philosophy
2006-09-13 13:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you both are open with each other.
Don't obsess over it, you'll just make yourself ill.
If she does move on, then your relationship just wasn't meant to be.
CT
2006-09-13 13:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, mate. Let her go and enjoy the same freedoms you did when you were there.
2006-09-13 13:18:02 · answer #10 · answered by PICKLES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋