i dont know anymore,im in middle shcool,iam really friendly and a friend to all,i have long dark brown hair with red highlights, and dark brown eyes. and all these girls have said how beatiful my hair is. iam 5'3 and i always talk to boys and stuff and am friendly to them ecsept for one because hes mean to me,but he dosent like me,he likes my friend.iam in shape and i usally get a's and b's, and good at sports.why dosent any of the boys in my class like me at all?it makes me feel really bad.what should i do?
2006-09-13 12:48:28 · 24 answers · asked by hannah1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and am funny to my friends and have a good secnce of hummer
2006-09-13 12:49:37 · update #1
i weigh 109 pounds
2006-09-13 12:52:36 · update #2
they must be crazy. i would go for a girl like that at my middle school.
2006-09-13 12:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Justin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Boys don't like you right now because now is not the time for you to be liked . You are actually to young to be thinking about boys that way . If you were so good in sports and you get such good grades, focused as you try to say you are; you wouldn't be even thinking on that nature. You should be thinking about how inappropriate it is to be thinking about boys at your age. You should be on the track field, b balling and being a good, positive student role model in Middle School. If you do this you will get friends. You will automatically be popular from being good in sports and then, not only that but real people, real friends will automatically draw to you. Don't try to find ways to be accepted or get approval to feel good about yourself girl. If you let yourself take the time to finish growing physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually everything will come to you naturally. Listen to what I'm saying. I have teenagers. I know what I'm talking about. I was a teenager before. You shouldn't be on this anyway.You are way to young. You need to talk to your parents. Reach out to them . Obviously you're seeking something that you're not getting at home. Make good decisions; good luck and God Bless!
2006-09-13 20:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by PrettyPatty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are beatiful and there is nothing that anyone in their good mind would critize---- I remember when i was in middle school i felt the same way and i did not understand what was happening , but as time went on i began to attracting the oppisite sex and had so many that wanted to be my friends i did not know who i would accept so i just accepted them all and i ended up with more friends and admires than anyone in school. I'm not saying this is what will happen to you but i bet its close ,so dont worry--- and above it all i did not have to do anything imoral to get the friends , i just had to be myself --- now i'm married with 2 daughters------ good luck sweetie and remember you are special in some one eyes------- God Bless and be patience-----
2006-09-13 20:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by Martha S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid them immature little boys.. get over youself and stop trying to get flattered... you are what you make of yourself.. the uglyest girls can be pretty.. its all about how you carry and present yourself.. if you let them get to you, they win and its all in your hands! They are not the ones walking in your shoes, u are, u can make anything happen.. just keep that attitude up, head up, and smilie when they say those things, cause later the game will play them.. think about it.. dont get played girl, life is topo precious and fun., make it a good day or not, the choice is YOURS!!!
dONT KISS no ones ***.. there are better people out there who deserves freinds like u .
2006-09-13 19:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by imastony1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen ,maybe they figure that if the whole play hard to get thing works with girls it will work with boys. Maybe they want to make you jealous or are just to shy. From your description it seems you got the looks and personality a guy looks nfor. Maybe the guys think you don't like them and they don't want to ruin the friendship. Or they are just into down right ugly girls.
2006-09-13 19:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cause you don't sell yourself like the other women, you need to be more aware of you sexuality don't be afraid of it, not saying that you should go out and screw the whole football team, but I'm pretty sure if you did you would get that attention. Just be yourself, guys will like you for that and respect you much more.
2006-09-13 19:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by My♥Cherry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just not their type.
Don't feel bad because they don't like you. When I was in highschool I had a ton of guy friends and I am attractive but they weren't all over me.
If you're not their 'dating type' you're just not the type they'd date. If you think you're pretty then don't over analyze things so much.
2006-09-13 19:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol maybe since u r in middle school they do like u and they only way they know how is to make fun of u and tease u..i wouldnt dwell on it u dont want middle school guys anyways go for the older more mature type
2006-09-13 19:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are u sure that the guy hows mean to u don't like u and just say he likes someone else because that's what i do. but from the way you explain it your very beautiful and have a beautiful personality.
want to talk more just email me. it mite take a will to answer but i'll reply.
2006-09-13 20:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ben S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont care...u dont need a guy to like you right now..cuz the guys u date right now are most def not going to be the one ur gonna marry..so wait till ur in college and find a guy whose mature...and anyways, in my opinion, look for a guy 1-4 yrs older than you...it creates a balance..trust me on this one..
2006-09-13 19:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by Lina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet some of the boys do like you...you're just reading them wrong....plus...i'm in 7th grade...i would like a boyfriend...but focus on all the good stuff you said about yourself.....for right now anyway...the right guy will come eventually
2006-09-13 19:54:19 · answer #11 · answered by bball_rox_lots 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋