ok, so im in 10th grade and there's these girls; one is in 7th grade and the other is a 10th grader like me. i like the 7th grader because she is as cute as they get and im pretty sure she likes me to cuz whenever she has a friend with her, she always points, trying to be subtle, and smiles while her friend looks around till we make eyecontact and i cant help but smile. the catch is i only see her on the bus. the 10th grader is just plain sexy. shes got a perfect figure and is just my height. i have 4/7 classes with her and we usually hold hands during lunch. if she asks me out... i cant say no but i cant help thinking about the girl on my bus. Help!?
2006-09-13 12:43:44 · 16 answers · asked by underoath_777 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First--what are their personalities like? They each can be gorgeous, but it's their personality that should do the trick.
Second--ask yourself why you want to date a 13 year old. While you are only 3 years her senior, you are in a different league. Her parents will STILL be protective, and although she will be popular for dating a high school boy, you wouldn't see her beyond the bus. That's not a very fun relationship.
I say go for the gal your own age. You'll be happier in the long run.
2006-09-13 12:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, three years makes a lot of difference. The 7th grader is probably just entering into puberty. It would be better to try to stay closer to your own age group for a while. Is the 7th grader just feeding your ego a little? Do you even know her? Once you got to know her you would probably realize that you really don't have anything in common. the 7th grader's parents would not accept you because they would think you are too old for her...it's not good all the way around. Get to know the other girl your age. Maybe she will grow on you once you talk to her.
2006-09-13 12:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the 10th grader cuz the other girl may be cute as a buttton but shes youn with means shes way more Immature.
2006-09-13 12:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the 10th grader she more ur age, if u go out wit a 7th grader they will all probly make fun a u, im a 7th grader by the way.
2006-09-13 12:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Pau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in 10th grade and she is in 7th grade, she is way too young for you. However, when she turns 18 and you are 21, ask her out.
2006-09-13 12:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, I think you should choose whoever that you will get along with and not purely based on looks. You may regret it if you get involved in a relationship where looks is the only thing keeping it together and end up arguing over something everyday.
2006-09-13 12:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by another newbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree, you'll be able to relate to the older girl a lot better, the younger girl might be cute but is it a little sister that u are after?? it seems like you already have a good relationship with this older girl so i would take the risk with the other girl u don't really see at all.
hope it all works out :)
2006-09-13 12:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by vincent_morfin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 7th grader seriously? thats like illegal haha but really forget her and go with the girl in your grade♥
2006-09-13 12:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by amandafay♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ask her out next friday reason she probable be busy all week so try the weekend. do not ask her out the 1st risk you get reason that ought to make you appear to be your obsessed. additionally locate out while she has not something to do on the weekends so which you adult males could have a date. If she keeps on turning down on your proposals for a date then she's way too busy for a courting. in keeping with risk she merely desires to be friends reason she has no time for having a bf?
2016-10-14 23:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the one in your grade...if it doesnt work out, go to the 7th grader
2006-09-13 12:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by pittisit43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋