My bestfriend and I both like the same guy. I think that guy likes me, too. Hes always looking at me and always talking to. I have a feeling that sometime soon hes gonna breakup wiht his GF and ask me 2 be his GF. What should I do?? I dont want to hurt my best friends feelings.
2006-09-13 12:41:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither of you should go out with him.
Think about it; what's more important... a best friendship or a boy?
If you go out with him, your best friend will be hurt and probably jealous. If she were to be with him, you'd feel the same way.
The only fair way to go about it is to forget about this boy and both of you move on to different boys. It wouldn't be fair for one or the other to go out with them, so think about your friendship, and let go of this crush.
2006-09-13 12:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a 3-some
2006-09-13 12:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about it. But make sure you read between what shes saying. Try to figure out what she is saying by her tone and face. But always remember to talk to your friend about it and that guys will come and go but your best friend will ALWAYS be there!
2006-09-13 12:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there not much u can do cuz it all depend the guy who like you or her so u can tell him what to feel so i say whatever he like you should go by that
2006-09-13 12:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh... i TOTALLY had this problem and we were talking about it but she said that if he ever asked me out she would be very happy for me and wouldn't want to hold me back from anything... but that is just her personality because she is SOOO nice to everyone.. i suggest you try talking to your friend about this but choose your words very carefully I would start out by saying... (name), I wanted to bring this up because i have been worried that this could possible change things between us and I really dont want this to happen so don't be upset with me for saying this but ...etc.
2006-09-13 12:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by elemenopee. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont choose him over you friend my old best friend chose my guy over me and he broke up me and the next night he was at her house hooking up with her so she wont even look at me anymore because i cought them out
2006-09-13 12:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by becc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin.
2006-09-13 12:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that no matter who likes him... whoever gets him first wins.. then the other should be woman enough to back off.
2006-09-13 12:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4get the guy, they are a dime a dozen, friends are 4ever
2006-09-13 12:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by cyunos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! helll, if i could get someone to break it off just for me i wouldnt be sitting here!
2006-09-13 12:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by underoath_777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋