For instance, a fear of women?
Paul
2006-09-13 12:40:17 · 11 answers · asked by dunric 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
what is there to be afraid of? either a woman will like u or she won't. if you have thoughts about women that you would be ashamed for them to know, then think about something else. my advice would be to seek some serious counseling now, while you are able. i say this because a lot of men who actually feel a fear of women (not to be confused with shyness) have serious, deep-seated issues in this area that, if left unchecked, can develop into far more intrusive problems. if this is not your case, then here is the best advice i can offer:
walk up to any group of women; tell the dumbest joke you know.
(non-dirty, please). whichever girl laughs the most...ask her out. never ever try to date a woman who doesn't share your sense of humor.
ps. what is your relationship with your mother like? this may be the source of your problem. i've had more than one friend with abusive or smothering mothers, and all of them had difficulty relating to women. it isn't uncommom, so don't let that get between you and a healthy, normal life. it took them a while to figure out that most women weren't like their mothers.
2006-09-13 12:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually to get over a fear you have to face it head on and dont be ashamed you have a fear of girls they may be fearful of you too, its perfectally natural and im sure this will pass
2006-09-13 12:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Face your fear, and remember that women are just people too, and we are all equal.
2006-09-13 12:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by Darth Power 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you scared of? Relationships? Or are shy? Then walk right up to a perfectly good stranger and try and hold a conversation.
2006-09-13 12:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by spool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way is to stay with your fear and stay inside it and it will simply vanish on its own.
2006-09-13 14:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by facing your fears
2006-09-13 13:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by zap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront the fear or resign yourself to the fact you'll end up with all your mates being blokes!
2006-09-13 12:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by renclrk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
(wat r u afraid of? Am i scary or something?) U gotta face it, a step at a time. Maybe if you find a girl you can talk to openly, she can help u overcome ur fear.
2006-09-13 12:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by Rainy Day 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Face it head on
2006-09-13 12:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by 1big teddy graham 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you afraid of women?
2006-09-13 12:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋