You've been successfull with a date...you ask her out...
How many days does it take before you can...
put your arm around her
kiss her on the cheek
kiss her on the lips
make love
I don't really want to 'make love' to her striaght-away, because I want to take her out to posh resturants/theatre/movies....and get to know her as a person..I don't want to use women for...***, and I don't want to be used by women either...
What should I do If she wants to 'make love' on the first date...and I don't even know much about her..should I tell her..and will she just dump me
I can wait as long as I can before I 'make love'....at least then I will know her as a person.....and not a object.
2006-09-13 12:20:06 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
About 3 weeks
2006-09-13 12:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by AYU 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there iz really no set time for wh3n all thiz things happ3n
just go with the flow!!!!!
try to get to know her and make her feel comfortable around u
but u should use this:
-put your arms around her: around the first or second date or third date
-kiss her on the cheek: around the fourth or 5th date
-kiss her on the lips on the sixth or seventh date
-make love to her when u are ready for a baby!!!{and if u do it before that make sure u use protection}
p.s and if she wants to have sex on the first date
she is only using u and is a **** so dump her
cause u dont know how many guys she has been with and if she dosent want to have sex and u like her ask her for another date!!!
good luck!!!!
2006-09-13 12:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by mandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can put your arm around her, hold her hand, kiss her cheek and if you are lucky a kiss on the lips on the first date.
I would wait at least a couple of months to go all the way with her.
If she wants to do it the first date, then you shouldnt go out with her in the firt place. You need a girl with more respect for herself.
Hope this helps!
2006-09-13 12:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The majority of the worlds men could look to you for inspiration!!
Ok if you're getting the right signals youcan put your arm around her and kiss her on lips on your next date - dont jump the girl, just put your arm there and if she doesnt move away, shes comfortable with it - then go to kiss her on the lips at the end of the date. With regards to HER wanting sex on the first date - tell her that you have more respect for her than just wanting to shag her and you'd prefer to wait until you're both a bit more comfortable with it - if she does judge you for not wanting to, shes a bit of a slapper and you're better off without.
congrats on being an outstanding guy! I wish you luck with her
2006-09-13 21:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a good guy call her and ask her out on athor date then take her to a nice resteraunt and a movie you can put your arm around her and kiss her on the cheek then third or fourth date kiss her on the lips and really talk to her and get to know her before you do anything else make sure she is the right girl for you then after dating for about 6-9 months take her home
good luck! :)
2006-09-13 12:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by Colin Night 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all its f*cking unless you actually do love her, and as for the rest, theres no set time scales, just do what feels comfortable, you just kind of get a vibe as to whats acceptable at what stage. I've slept with someone on the first night and I've also waited 2 months, it depends on the individual.
And just because you sleep with someone on the first night doesn't make them a sl*g!! It just means that you've all ready reach a point where your both comfortable with each other and seems natural.
2006-09-13 14:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to see that I'm not the only bloke who actually likes women. Just do what feels right mate... Be honest, its the best way.
If you nervous about how it all works, after you're a bit more comfortable with each other, explain what's going on in your head... If she's worth it, she'll understand and you'll be much happier for it.
2006-09-13 13:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by y30man5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st date put ure arm around her
2nd date take her somewere nice and kiss her on the cheek
3rd date get to know her some
4th date kiss her on the lips
at least 7th date before the real love
good luck!
2006-09-13 12:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont she sh would ant to make *** on the first date but if she does n u say no and she dumps u , she doesnt like u, just wants u for ****. also im 13 and i think for ur questions the answers are
put ur arm around her - whenu take her to the movies
kiss her on the cheek - prob 3rd or 4th date
kiss her on the lips - 6th or 7th date
make out - if she strts first or 7th date
make love - when ur married
2006-09-13 12:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by angelpinkgal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at this in Wiki Social Skills
Wiki Social Skills
http://www.sidwiki.com
How women select men
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=How_women_select_men
2006-09-13 12:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋