Okay first of all im 13 . Okay so reasently i moved in with my aunt. she has 2 daughter. one 6 one 7 and the 7 year old doesnt want me to say nice things but she doesnt want me to say mean thing. so i decided not to talk to her but then she want to go into my room and touch my things. but then she gets mad at me for tell her to leave because i told her what to do. can any one help me out. please!!! i'm begging
2006-09-13 12:10:11 · 3 answers · asked by puffmuffin04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She may be use to being the oldest, so invite her in and have some fun doing nails and such!!!
2006-09-13 12:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to aunt about it. Try and be considerate of your little cousin. she's use to being the oldest and I think she's just trying to let you know that you can't invade her territory. Does she treat the 6 year old good or is she bossy? If she's bossy she's probably worried that you are going to be the same way with her. Be an example to her. Keep saying nice things even if she doesn't like it. She'll give in. Remember, she's only 7 so most of it is a phase. Help her through it. Good luck.
2006-09-13 12:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kingdom_Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your aunt what's going on and maybe you all can sit down and talk. It feels like your 7yr old cousin is feeling like you have taken her place as the oldest girl, in her house.
Until you moved in, she was the oldest. Now that you live in her house, she feels that she is the middle kid. You may have to tell her that you are not trying to take her place. You just live there.
2006-09-13 12:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋