Here's my situation:
Im 20 years old, in college, and am single right now. I have met a girl who occasionally comes to my work whom I had physical attraction to and have asked out to a date to get to know her. But at the same time however, I met a girl in my classes at school whom I have come to like a lot, but have not made any "advances" or "moves" yet because I feel more than just a physical attraction.
I also flirt and keep my options open with many other girls I have had acquaintances with, but I am confused as to what I should do between those 2 girls I mentioned. I'm getting to know both of them as best I can but I am afraid that I might fall for one and still have to deal with being involved with another...
This all came about when I got back to the university and started to date around again for the first time in over a year. I get a lot of attention from ladies these days and I just don't know what to do...
Am I doing the right thing so far?
2006-09-13 12:07:44 · 8 answers · asked by benh316 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think even in the dateing world you should only date or have your eye on one person at one time so choose which girl you would like to get to know and get to know her the other girl will figure it out when she realizes you arent flirting and with the other girls stop flirting with them and keep your eye on the bait you aint going to marry but one girl anyways so why leave tons of other girl heartbroken cause you made them think they had a chance?
2006-09-13 12:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating means just that, you get to keep your options open. If while your dating (multile women) you get asked about a comitment tell them your not ready for that yet. This way you can continue to date while you make the right decision.
2006-09-13 12:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all wish our final choice is the right one for an everlasting relationship. This is the most difficult heartbreaking choice when you're lucky enough to have so many. I wish you luck...there arent ever any garrantees. But your head and heart is in the right place.
2006-09-13 12:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I'd go with the one to whom you have more than just a physical attraction.
2006-09-13 12:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date them both, but make sure they both know that you are dating other people and at the time do not intend on becoming exclusive. (at least until you know them better). if you fall for one of them during that time, then just let the other know you can't see her anymore... be honest about it
2006-09-13 13:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by copaceticlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. only lead on one girl then you wont be in a mess like you are. i had a past of cheating when i was a junior and senior. right now im only 19!
2006-09-13 12:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are doing the right thing keep your options open
2006-09-13 12:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by shasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ys
2006-09-13 12:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by C4ndy g1rl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋