My boyfriend doesnt really call me that much, are all guys like that and why are they like that, how can I get him to call me more. He loves me thats for sure.
2006-09-13 12:05:02 · 18 answers · asked by Mayra M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the man can suffocate in a relationship too. so give him space.
2006-09-13 12:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by hgary06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are different types of guys obviously. You picked one that doesn't really get into the whole "communication thing". You however, would very much enjoy latenight chats about anyting and everything. (it's in your nature as well as your genetic make-up. No worries)
So...express to your man how important talks and bonding are to you and suggest late night talks as an intimate way to "get to know you" better. He'll be in a more comfortable, relaxed frame of mind by that time of the day and perhaps you'll learn a little more about one another. Good luck.
2006-09-13 12:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you then there may be a few reasons (and by the way how can you tell he loves you????)
Either a previous girlfriend has berated him for hounding her too much OR he don't like you as much as you think... OR he has a healthy balance in his life? Depends on how little he rings, less than 3 times a week would seem odd to me because then he must obviously SEE you less than he calls you!
2006-09-13 12:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not all guys like to talk over the phone. There are a few, that don't seem to mind, but like I said its only a "few." Guys are a different breed they are not like us, they don't talk so much on the phone, just say what they need to say and get off the phone, they don't like talking during the game (football, basketball, etc.)
Guys are guys and you just have to accept whatever kind of guy that you have, he will talk when he is ready.
2006-09-13 12:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys can be this way... some don't like to "talk" and tend to use the phone to convey information. Guys need their space. Check out "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" ...it talks about how men will "retreat to their caves" and pretty much want some time alone to work out what's stressing them, whereas women tend to want to talk/vent.
2006-09-13 15:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you like him to call you, as for me I like to call my GF every now and then just to say hi and if she is okay with her job or if there is something that she wants to talk .. but not all people loves to talk over the phone as for me I like to talk using my phone .. hahaha depends on the phone as well .. joke
2006-09-13 12:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mature man doesn't need to constantly call the one he loves. He has a life apart from his girlfriend be it school or work. I say good for him. You should appreciate it and find other things to do too.
2006-09-13 12:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but i'm the same way i'm not a phone person i call him like twice a day or he'll call me twice a day....i go to work and school so i dont care that much just as long as i hear his voice before going to bed
2006-09-13 12:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup all guys or most atleast are like that. They think phones are only useful as a decorative purpose or for business purpose. they dont understand the need to talk for long on phones!!!
Take care
2006-09-13 12:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by nice_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be typical for guys to not call much. I don't know why. You said he loves. you. How does he show that he loves u if he doesn't call much?
2006-09-13 12:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by baby doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's anything like me, he probably hates talking on the phone. I know I do. That's the only reason for me.
2006-09-13 12:06:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋