2006-09-13 11:50:59 · 53 answers · asked by shaffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course we are around, baby girl. just don't give up. you forgot smart, witty, funny, great to hang around, out going, have money (well, some), love life and respect others.
2006-09-13 12:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a great question, and I'll give you some fatherly advice.
There are very few if any, and it's a real dilemma for a girl today. You can thank the liberals for this, and we have descended terribly over the past four decades or so.
Most of them are interested in sex, and they believe that it's a normal part of dating. Nothing could be further from the truth, and under no circumstances should you do it before you're married. The man should really be the one setting this standard, and not you. In fact, if you tested him and he gives in, then he would not even be the right type of man.
I don't know what to say and I wish it was better.
2006-09-13 11:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2006-09-13 12:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend and I had an amazing sex life, but she has a very demanding job and couldn't keep up with me. I think its true that a lot of women cannot match their man's sex drive.
Anyway, she was honest and told me that she had decided that our relationship should not focus on sex as much as intimacy. At first I was angry and hurt, but I soon realized I couldn't stay mad, because...well, darn it...I LOVED HER!
Now we still have lots of sex, but sometimes we just lie there and cuddle. I never realized that I could feel so loved and she says the same.
You make a great point and there should be more men out there who have learned this! Happy hunting!
2006-09-13 11:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are decent men in this world, but only that very special woman will find us. We don't advertise for we are humble, and mostly quiet. It is our actions, not our words, that define us by your standards. We can't lie to you, for we respect you, which means that we can not subject you to intense interrogations when you go somewhere with your girlfriends because we trust you implicitly. We care enough to send those flowers, wash those dishes, cook you a meal, and even LISTEN to you when you talk as we are really interested in what you have to say. Not only that, but your voice is most likely music to our ears, so talk away. Sex, to us, is the bonus, since we are already so emotionally fulfilled just with our friendship alone. Yes, we exist, and when you find us, you will find that it is YOU we were waiting for all along!
2006-09-13 12:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by The Mystic One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and their far and few between. When I was a teen and in my early twenties I never stared a female down like some animal.
My father showed me through example how to treat women by how he treated my mother at home, in public and when we used to go out on errands alone. He never showed any kind of disrespect with looks or words about other women.
I was called all kinds of names by other boys then in my twenties men, but I didn't have to prove anything to myself. I knew I had moral integrity and character. I thank my father for that.
My wife scooped me up twelve years ago when we started dating. We have been married for eight years with three children.
I wanted someone I could rely on in life with a family. Not some superficial, shallow fantasy.
Sorry there are not enough of us "MEN" out there.
2006-09-13 12:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by Martin M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would consider myself under the category you specified..
And Im a traditional... very traditionalist when it comes to something like sex. I think it IS sacred and even if you do it with someone you are not married to, it should be a very special and intense moment of passion between two individuals...
So why do you ask?
2006-09-13 11:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by benh316 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i am caring friendly protective, from what i hear from the married, id make a good husband, problem is, im 16 so only looking for good relationship that wud sumday lead to marriage, i am horny as hell but i would not "screw her" until we were real close, i prefer emotional sex over crazy wild one night stands.
so yes there are still good guys out there keep lookin. guys like us are kinda shy. so u gotta do the searchin
2006-09-13 11:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by ur_daughter_kick_me_dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure the right guy is out there for you. But something to think about: if you don't want to be a sex object, you might want to reconsider that picture you're using....
2006-09-13 11:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by Allen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think sex is everything, i mean it is great but to be honest i could live without it for a while...girls call me a gentleman because im really humble and treat them with respect...
2006-09-14 13:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good ones are out there. We found each other and I was fully clothed. Try to dress more conservative and you won't attract the wrong men. If you dress like a loose woman, guess what kind of men you will attract???
2006-09-13 11:53:50 · answer #11 · answered by lessonslearned 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋