What is my problem.?

Question

I can't pick up women my age at all. Younger women seem to be more attracted to me. (I know the internet isn't the best place for personal questions, but since i'm here.) Am I doing something wrong? What should I do?

I'm 22

the girls are generally 3 to 4 yrs younger. The problem i want someone with a slower more stable lifestyle.

Answer 1

Maybe you come across as immature? (Going by your nickname.) Act your age, or older. Be a little more serious. Yes, women like to laugh, but there are limits. Their sense of humor is not crude like that of a man.

How do you dress? What do your shoes look like? Polish them. They will notice. It shows them that you care about details and you take pride in yourself. Don't be a slob. They like good personal hygiene.

How do you approach them? Some women like tacky pick up lines, but many don't. Where do you normally find your women? Maybe a change in venue is called for.

Treat her with respect and you might do better. Don't be crass; be classy.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Well it would have been helpful if I new your age. And I think you just have to see what kind of things do ladies your age like what do they need from you and what can you give that they want it is just a simple game ask her to be your at the right time first, second you will have to have some thing that she wants to have of could benefit from, third what do you have in common with the girl that you want to be with. All that is that you new I don’t think there is any thing else that you have to do well any ways that is that and you could thank me for this latter when you see the result

Answer 3

Are you acting to Young for your age? ask your self that questions and see what you might be doing to attract this young Hotties.

Maybe you are hanging out in the wrong place, try going out with friends your age to places that people your age can hang out. The way you dress can also say allot, so watch what you wear and when you wear it.

Answer 4

don't take offense..but do u feel that u are a Mature, Kind, Attractive, Smart...Man?? or do u pride urself in still being a "kid". =T what a WOMAN is looking for is stability, support, open mindedness, appreciation, respect.... someone who can prove that he has those characteristics. i would say a girl is looking for fun, have a good time, not really long term....so if u make sure u become what is considered a "great man" instead of a boy, maybe u will start attracting older women who deserve respect, and who can respect you. but they can't do that til you continue to Grow and Learn how to treat a lady, and take care of yourself, your responsibilites, etc. it's worth it to become a Man worth of a good Woman, and vice versa. :)

Answer 5

Flash some cash at them. It works every time.
But, seriously: Women mature much faster than men. It takes men longer than women to realize whats really important in a relationship. That is why you see alot of older men/younger women marriages instead of older women/younger men(unless the women are filthy rich).

Answer 6

I used to have that problem too. Then I found that being with the right one was way more important than her age. Go look for young chicks and don't let anyone tell you it's wrong - unless they're underage (LOL).

Answer 7

1st? tell me ur age. it wud help alot....um.....what's the problem with younger women? how younger? maybe the women at ur age just......rn't attracted to u or u just rn't their type. There is nothing wrong with u. It's just their opinions.

Answer 8

go with the younger women, they need the experience

Answer 9

well how old are you??? and what age is to young?? you know most people date people within a 5 year age difference like 85% of people do well so i heard :)

Answer 10

how much younger???
nothing wrong.
girls jus like older guys.
thts all.
um..jus ask a woman out ur age..