i've posted a question on here earlier and people are telling me that if i love my boyfriend of 3 months, i should tell him. only problem is, he's going on holiday in morning and i wont see him for 3 weeks. is it wise to send him a text saying that i do love him or wait til he gets back and say it to his face?
2006-09-13 11:16:12 · 15 answers · asked by Mizz Julie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not by text, its to impersonal, ask yourself is that how you would like to be told the first time, I don't think so, if you really have to tell him, get yourself round to his place pronto and do it face to face. Hope he reacts how you want him to. Blokes don't always, it could scare him, Good luck x
2006-09-13 11:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lulu T 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him that you love him.
One suggestion would be to text him telling him that you love him and you hope that he has a great time on holiday and that you cant wait for him to get back and tell you about the great time he has had.
That way you let him know how you feel with out the scary "I LOVE YOU" and he will probably see it as really affectionate but still get the message.
2006-09-13 18:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by zippy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not make his day and send him a text. Maybe wishing him bon voyage or happy holidays or something then sign off "Love
2006-09-13 18:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by mancunian_nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When making declarations of love it's always best to do so face to face. It will mean so much more that way.
Sending texts saying I love you is fine if you've already said the words.
2006-09-13 18:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by bluesie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a cell phone with him why don't you just call him?? Some things aren't supposed to be said in a text message. Its kind of like someone breaking up with you in a text. I would either call him or wait until he comes home.
2006-09-13 18:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by rn.student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. serious things said by text are always a really bad idea. just wait until he gets back. if hes gone for 3 weeks he'll probably miss you and it would be a better idea to say it then anyways.
2006-09-13 18:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the phrase grow up springs to mind.. no dont tell him by text. dont tell him at all.. 3 weeks is not long enough
2006-09-13 18:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it face to face. Or at least phone him and tell him.
2006-09-13 18:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by BenignSource 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and tell him, any1 can just send a text and say that ,but do they really mean it ?
2006-09-13 18:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by dodgybloke572000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope def not, very bad idea! always better to say something like that face to face.
2006-09-13 18:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋