I met this guy. He and I hit it off and we spent a lot of time together. His ex wife started coming around when she found out he moved on with me. He started telling me he was confused. I continued to call him but he got to the point of not taking my calls. I then would leave messages on top of messages and never received a return phone call. I would even leave little notes on his door, car etc...I got the idea so I just cut it all off and have stopped with the calls..notes...messages..etc. Is he likely to call back? I hear that when guys have women pawing all over them it makes them feel powerful and good but when it stops it kinda shocks them a little. If he does call...how long should it take?
2006-09-13 10:54:42 · 9 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you've been wasting your time with him...move on!
2006-09-13 10:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though this is a game to support or enhance his ego. If you are looking for a real, genuine, healthy relationship don't fall for these games. A person interested in a relationship gets real. They are genuine. They want to share themselves with another person and get to know the other person. The focus is not on themsleves, but rather on the other person and the relationship. I like to think of it as a blend. A great relationship is one that both persons can be themselves and bring the best out in each other. Get rid of these guys that are stuck in the highschool games. It is time they grow up, mature and move on.
2006-09-13 11:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Shayna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes....Stop the calls and all contact. He will be confused and be back with her for a little while and either he will find out again why they split or it will make him see that he can work this out with her. And you should let that be. If you play abit hard to get now that you have shown interset , when he is ready and hopefully you will be ready, he will come back to you. Seen it happen and works. Be patient... find things to do with your friends. Dont give in....play hard to get or be at a distance
2006-09-13 11:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Dale S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u so pathetic that u can't find a single guy? U need help. U r obsessed with this guy who obviously still loves his ex-wife and u r interfering with his emotions and his feelings. STOP IT, GET A LIFE!!!!! Grow up and find u own single man without ties or without past baggage that is still lingering in the background.
2006-09-13 11:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't hold my breath maybe his ex wife is taking your notes, calls and etc and throwing out and deleting them?
Could take awhile. May as well move on and enjoy life with someone who is into you.
2006-09-13 10:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by Carol 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's over to me. Move on; looks like he has.
2006-09-13 10:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by KnowALittleBit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let it alone, its a dirty way to break it off with someone but it happens thats what my ex did 2 me
2006-09-13 10:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by so_fast420 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heh he apparently did not move on. You wasted your time.
2006-09-13 11:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you tried calling her? instead of waiting her t call you?
2006-09-13 10:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by natalia k 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋