I was with my ex husband for 17 years, married for 13 years. He treated me bad for the last 3 or 4 years, was a control freak and was violent. I found courage to leave him 21 months ago. Then i met a guy who moved in with me after a few weeks, then sat at home all day drinking (obviously i was on rebound!). I saw sense and dumped him. The next guy didnt move in with me but turned out trying to control me, telling me who i could be friends with, what i could wear, etc so i dumped him. the next one, a toy boy, was too quiet for me and didnt work. Now i've been seeing a guy i met at work for 3 months. He's everything my ex's arent. He's loving caring considerate and i trust him 100%. I feel so comfortable with him. I do love him but think its too early to tell him so but he knows how i feel and he feels the same. people have noticed how he looks at me, they say he's got that look and he cant take his eyes off me!!!
Could i have found love at last and my mr right????
2006-09-13 10:52:49 · 19 answers · asked by Mizz Julie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know if you found Mr. Right, but it seems once you became more aware of how these men were treating you ( I bet none of these men knew each other, but all had some of the same traits), you became more confident and dumped them. Sometimes when we are feeling bad about ourselves we attract the wrong people in our life. Good for you for meeting someone to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. I hope that things continue to work out for you. Everyone deserves to be loved.
2006-09-13 11:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by msploveus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have only known him for 3 months. After the 6th month he could turn into a monster. Or he may have a heart of gold, but 3 months is too earily to tell. Were you friends before this, are you really over your ex, is he another rebound. Have you repaired yourself from the first bad relationship. I don't think so, it sounds like you don't even know what your doing. Maybe you should have worked on getting over the first guy and repairing you. It takes more than a couple of weeks to get over 30 years. I don't even think your ready for a plant, let alone a new relationship. It's too soon, because inside, you don't want to be alone so your compensationing for one relationship for another and then another.
2006-09-13 18:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry you have been with soo many losers in your life. This guy sounds like a good man. But dont rush into anything just to make sure he doesnt change up on you once he knows he has you. You dont want to make the same mistake again.I think you should give it more time before you tell him anything....and dont move in together so early on. Just continue getting to know him as a person. And i hope he is THE ONE for you. Its obvious you deserve someone to treat you like you are suppose to be treated. Take your time and good luck.
2006-09-13 17:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you ever know...
im sure we all think that about the people we are with, or we wouldn't be with them.
as you have found out, not even marriage can dictate that "he is the one"
I do hope for you that he is tho!!
:O)
oh and well done for having the courage to leave your stinking Ex
2006-09-13 17:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont know at 3 months. it takes time to truely get to know someone. dont go jumping the gun trying to marry him because you need to reallllllly get to know him. figure out what makes him mad, how does he react when he's mad, is the the jealous type, does he have any hidden secrets,etc are questions you need to really ask yourself before u fall head over heels in love with this guy.
but good luck
2006-09-13 17:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your sake, Iet's hope so. Just don't rush in and move too quickly this time around. If he IS Mr. Right, then he'll be around a long time, waiting for you. So, enjoy him and good luck!
2006-09-13 18:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by south_lido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did
2006-09-13 17:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by prettydarling1000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that you have. Only time will tell.
Good Luck
2006-09-13 17:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by bluesie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound promising, that's for sure .... fingers crossed! And mind yourself ...
2006-09-13 17:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe but if not he's mr right now, good luck
2006-09-14 01:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by merlin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋