I can't seem to get this one guy to leave me alone he keeps bugging me and saying he wants me, but knows that i have someone in my life. I have tried to tell him and still he continues...how do i get rid of him?
2006-09-13 10:50:40 · 29 answers · asked by scrappy537 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh I know what you mean.
I just keep bringing up his wife and asking him how the pregnancy is going.
I tell him this is not going anywhere.
We are on two different pages.
It would never work anyway.
Try saying I am very happy in my current relationship and if somethings changes I will let you know. (don't go to him if you do get single b/c he sounds possessive and you don't need that)
Tell him that he is not your type.
Does he have any bad habits? Bring that up.
Matchmake for him maybe he will leave you alone.
Good Luck.
2006-09-13 10:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Carol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is considered harassment and stalking. If it keeps up and/or gets worse, you may have to get a restraining order against him. I hope it won't go that far, but if you feel gigantically uncomfortable with his unwanted behavior, you should document everything he does: include day, date & time, and make a note of any witnesses (friends) who saw/know what he's doing. This way, when you go to the police, you can have a record of this and they'll be more inclined to actually listen to you and not brush it off as a lovers quarrel. Good luck.
2006-09-13 10:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by pinduck85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf is unavailable for some reason, then ask a good guy friend to help you out. Ask them to talk to him (not hit him) and tell him that you are not interested in him.
If this behavior continues, it's time to talk to the authorities because, Darlin', you are being stalked. You might mention to him that you will do this if he doesn't back off. Whatever you do, make up your mind soon and put your plan into action. Inaction is what got you in this fix. Don't repeat your mistake.
2006-09-13 10:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A knee, firmly applied to a man's "area" yields astonishing results in mere seconds.
Also, make a total display of kissing, feeling, touching, holding hands, etc., with your current boyfriend in front of this clown hat.
Also, the police will typically respond if you say that you feel threatened or in danger.
Seriously - be careful.
FP
2006-09-13 11:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him one more time to leave you alone or you will tell your boyfriend. If this don't work tell dad he will be happy to put a scare in him.
2006-09-13 10:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by xeson1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple get a restraining order or order of protection - if you don't want to go that far just tell him that you are going to get it - that should scare him away - and if it don't call the police because you have a serious problem
2006-09-13 10:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go to hell and get a life. If this doesn't work slap him in his damn mouth for being so aggravating!
2006-09-13 10:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Honey Eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your man, he will take care of it. if my gf said there was a guy bugging her, i would make sure it stopped.
2006-09-13 10:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by ACE25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he calls tell your boyfriend or a male friend to answer your phone and tell him to back off.
2006-09-13 10:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him get turned off. If he hates smokers smoke in front of his face and stuff like that.
2006-09-13 10:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋