I REALLY like this guy from my school. He plays the drums, is hilarious, and is pretty nice. And his eyes! They show SOOO much emotion. When hes happy they glow and when he's upset he looks like a sad little puppy dog with those big brown eyes! Anyways how can I get him to like me? I'm 14 and he is either 14 or 15. He hangs around with really skinny girls though, and so they are probably his type. I'm a thick girl....so I was wondering, also, if I could still have a shot with him? So I'm asking you to plz give me 1. tips on getting this guy to ask me out and 2. if I might have a shot with him. Thanx!
2006-09-13 10:34:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all you got to do is ask him to hang out with you later
if he does-great
if he doesn't-whatever
2006-09-13 10:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by xxBeastlyBrixx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all I can tell u is that u can't get a guy to like u. All u can do is be ur self. If he doesn't like u for who u are than he is not worth ur time. Well I think the only thing u can do is just talk to him as a friend and if things go good, then he might ask u out. Focus on school, ur 14 u need to stop getting ur head out of Boy problems and putting it in ur books. Believe me it pays off in the future. There is time for everything, and right now ur time is for school. Think about that.
2006-09-13 17:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all it does not matter how thick or thin you are and as you get older you will realize that. and also older guys will tell you they like a girl with some meat on her bones. no one likes to have sex with or cudlle a girl who will give them bruses because they are so boney yuck... as for the asking out thing.. be up front with him.. make the first move and talk to him ask him to hang out just you two.. this will not only shock him but also really het his attention!!! Good luck hunny and just remember your weight is not everything about you and boys are not everything either
2006-09-13 17:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by TEMPTRESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if you want to be with someone and want him to like you, that person should not like you for looks, what count is how you are inside, so if I were you I would ask him out to a movie and if he hesitates to answer you and give you an answer, to me that is a bad sign on what he is looking for, and I know that if this person is not for you, god has someone else in mind for you, do not give up try asking him and see what happens if it does not work out will you will find some one else, I hope this answers your question.
2006-09-13 17:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl u r way too young to be thinking bout that. Having said that though, Y don't y just ask him? Or have one of ur friend ask him what type of girl he likes. bear in mind though u may not likewhat u hear. Even so don't try to change yoyourself to please any one except urself.
2006-09-13 17:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by Pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make someone like you, but you can try to talk to him and see what his reaction is. If positive then keep having conversations, but if negative let it go before you get depressed or hurt. Forcing the issue never works, so be good to yourself.
2006-09-13 17:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by gary o 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your lovely self, that the most important thing.
BE YOUR SELF the rest with fall into place.
2006-09-13 17:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋