so i have these two best friends both boys and i have dated both of them. and so this year i decided that i would just be friends with them not date them. and then today one of them ( tyler ) came up to me and asked me out and for some reason i said yes. he was really nervous when he asked me. and then when we got off the bus we hugged and to me it felt like i was hugging one of my brothers. what should i do?
2006-09-13 10:22:31 · 11 answers · asked by dubbergirlpanda 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try being honest with yourself first.. and then tell the guys the truth... and just remember that however you treat yourself is the instruction manual you give to others for how they should treat you. Respect how you feel!
2006-09-13 10:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him. Tell him that you like him, but you've realized when you hugged him that it was more of like a friend or family member, you don't feel that type of affection towards him. If you don't say anything, things will just get worse cause his feelings for you will grow, and that will not only be hard for him to take but harder for you to break it off the longer you put it off. If he's been your friend for ages, clearly he's a good guy, you just aren't' attracted to him physically. Be open and honest with him, cause he'll appreciate it and you'll feel alot better too It might be awkward at first, after you tell him, but after a little while things between the two of you will get alot easier.
2006-09-13 17:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it felt like hugging ur bro, then don't date him, try to explain 2 him that u just want to be friends, but if u like him, just tell him u need some space 4 a while
2006-09-13 17:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by lucky c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you don't hook up w/ him...I would have a talk too. Let him know that you want to just be friends. If that's not what he wants, you may lose him as a friend, but are saving a lot of time and hard feelings
2006-09-13 17:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by n4btc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like the phisical atraction is not even there. Do u know what i mean. I think its best if u tell him how u feel. If this goes on and u don't get to feel anything for him, then u need to let him know. Its only fare... Don't put him through this... he thinks u like him like a bf when u know its not true.
2006-09-13 17:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inknow what I would do if I felt I was dating MY brother/sister. You already know what to do.
2006-09-13 17:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not interested in more and just being friends.
2006-09-13 17:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by spacecommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him when you go out with him that you cherish his presence and friendship in your life but do not feel anything more than that.
2006-09-13 17:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you thought about it and would rather just be friends for now.........the put off works good
2006-09-13 17:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-13 17:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋