i been marred for 2 1/2 year and been to gever for 3 1/2 year i love my Wife so much but i love a girl i went to school with to i just didn't know how much i love her intell now but i don't want to leave my wife over it tho but i thank about the girl all the time what should i do? oh by the way i talk to that girl all the time please help
2006-09-13 10:11:28 · 19 answers · asked by davedebo198305 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you love the other girl you just like the attention that the another girl is giving you. But let me tell you I don't think you have the right to decide if you should keep your wife I think she is the one that needs to decide if she should keep you because what you are doing is WRONG. Good luck !
2006-09-13 10:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things you just got to leave behind. You are in a commited relationship now. If you continue the way you are going you might as well have the divorce papers ready. It is really hard to resisit temptation. If you love and respect your wife you will let the other girl go for good. Good luck I hope this helps some.
2006-09-13 17:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to love two people at the same time. But you can be loyal to only one. If you want to stay with your wife, do the decent thing and distance yourself from the other girl - no contact, etc. If you want the other girl - be a man and end the relationship with your wife before you start something with the girl.
2006-09-13 17:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all remember those days of being single and the love of our lives, but there had to be a reason the two of you broke up. Your a married man now, accept the responsibility of that relationship instead of mooning over what might have been. Stop putting yourself in a postion where you will cheat on your wife with this other woman.
2006-09-13 17:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved your wife you wouldn't be talking to your high school love. You should of thought about things before you got married. If i was your wife and found out you were in love with another woman i'd leave ya in the dust. Quit being a loser like most of the men and be truthful & faithful to your wife.
2006-09-13 17:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking with your little head. Thats what you should do. You are married and took a vow. If you love your wife you will not hurt her over some other girl. Don't always think the grass is greener on the other side. If you have something good then don't throw it away.
2006-09-13 17:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Vthokie25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple, if you are not going to be faithful to your wife by keeping in touch with her, them just divorce your wife and marry the other girl. Don't be a cheater.
2006-09-13 17:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your wife why are you talking to this other girl? Stop immediately. There is love and then there's lust.
2006-09-13 17:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by searaydreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's pretty simple. Stop being selfish and stop talking to the girl. Your married now and you shouldn't have contact with this girl anymore.
2006-09-13 17:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask yourself whats more important...your marriage or this girl....you married for love....so ditch the girl and stay with your wife...if she found out that you loved another woman it would devestate her so why put her through that because you fancy someone else....be honest with yourself....get rid of the floozie
2006-09-13 17:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋