One day he told me that he left a woman pregnant and that she aborted, he said she was crazy, he wanted the kid......and I didnt like that, cause for me that's something too serious, he would of been a father......then he saw that I wasn't the same after that, and then I mentioned the subject and he's like, you believed it ? I was joking.....Then someone told me that sometimes guys make up stories to impress girls, and they don't realize that sometimes their stories can scare them off.......He also mentioned that he likes sex a lot, he never asked me for it, but he did mention that he likes it alot..... I'm a virgin, and I told him that I wont have it cause I will wait till I'm married, then he's like well, you're missing out, but no one can make you do things you don't want to do.......I don't have contact with him anymore, but once he gave me his brother's email so I can send him a pic, and recently I remembered his bro's email, and I contacted him....
2006-09-13 09:57:39 · 3 answers · asked by hey_amt95 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now we chat....but I really like this guy....Not his brother, I like the guy I mentioned at first......I really do, at the beginning I wanted to contact his bro to know things about him but he won't say anything....What should I do, I know that we're so different but I really do like him......recently I sent him a text message telling him, we're too different and that he has too much experience and things like that.......I guess I wanted to end that chapter in my life..........he didn't answer back, I guess he got tired of the text messages.....but I really care for him....Any suggestions?? Please ONLY mature answers, please!!!!! Anyone HELP!!!
2006-09-13 09:58:27 · update #1
Stick to your"guns" and don't compromise your self esteem for any-one. This guy's not serious and only wants you for one thing. You will be broken-hearted and he'll be gone & someday when you do find that speacial person, you'll wish you would have listened. You are just curious as to what your missing /or what could happen, that makes him more attractive, think about that. It also makes it look as if you're needy and running after him, and that makes you vulnerable to his taking. I'M serious, I've seen it before many times. Wait& find someone who likes you for you, They won't pressure you to do things you don't want to do.
2006-09-13 10:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN as fast and as far away as you can---all the signs are not good ones.....trust your gut feeling....RUN RUN RUN
2006-09-13 17:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that your father ? try to talk to him and spend time with him?
2006-09-13 17:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by LeeAna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋