Ok so theres this guy I like A LOT!! He's a senior now and Im a sophemore. We were pretty good friends last year, but this year has been hell with him so far. Like at first when we friends and I liked him, I actually thought he liked me too. All the signs were there, everyone you could think of. But now in the halls all I get is a hi with a blank stare OCCASIONALLY! Which really sucks, he is a shy guy but does this mean hes just uninterested or what? Does this mean hes changing? Are these mixed signals? Whats the story here!? HELP PLEASE!??!!
2006-09-13 09:41:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok listen!! i would suggest u to offer him a potato sandwich if he likes it then he likes u if he dont then forget it ROFLMAO
2006-09-13 09:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by ★HigHTƹcH★ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's probably going through some stuff like what am I going to do after high school? If I start a relationship now, I'll be off to college or somewhere and the chick that I like will be here. Should I get some now, and then know next year it will be over and move on or start a long distance relationship? If we have a long distance thing, I'll be doing another chick will she be going another guy while I'm away? Do I really want to go through this? The clock is ticking either way.
2006-09-13 09:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, guys like to make girls like them,i don't know y its just their nature.He MIGHT like you and is trying to ignore you because he thinks you gon end up coming to him cos you like him a lot! And from what i can tell,gal he got you right where he wants you! Just find something to talk about with him,anything.Don't be too friendly,just act like any other friend....if you are a dare devil ask him if a friend of his(preferably a cute friend) has got a girlfrienda see his rection. If he asks a lot of questions it means he's jealous and that proves he likes you as much as you do him! If there's no reaction...move on heaint worth u.
2006-09-13 09:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by G glow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you were friends last year and this year he hardly acknowledges you in the hallways then I would say he is not interested in you in a boyreind /girlfriend way .
It would not be that his shyness kicked in this year. I am sure you are a person with much to offer so my suggestion would be don't think about that relation much . If it was meant to be he would come around. Till then open your horizon for meetting other people !! Their might be other people interested in you that your loosing that window of opportunity to meet .GL!
2006-09-13 09:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i were not interested in a girl i would try to (be her friend) this meansnot really flirting with her but being nice and joking occasionally with her. if he were really interested in you hed be flirting with you alot if hes in high school. thats the way i was. if he wants to be around you alot then i think thats a good sign . if you think he was at one point interested in you but has lost interest than maybe the key is to flirt with one of his friens around him . that allways made me jealous and i wanted the girl that much more
2006-09-13 09:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by anthony r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a senior and graduating. thus he will be leaving for college or life in general. he doesn't want to be tied down most likely, and all his attention needs to be on his future. Move on.
2006-09-13 09:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is thinking about somebody else wants to protect his vulnerability eg.he needs to study more ,or he is protecting you he may think that you are too young,perhaps you had rose colored glasses on in the past ,have a word with him tell him about your feelings he may tell you why he has changed or not.
Take care!
2006-09-13 09:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of looking for signals, why don't you ask him and put you both out of misery? What is the worst that could happen, he may not be interested, at least you would know
2006-09-13 09:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get the book "HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU" by Greg Behrendt & Liz (something, cant remember her last name). They should have it at your local public library & book stores. Its is a single ladies must read, you will want to pass it on to all your friends!
2006-09-13 09:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by MANDEE 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think he has changed or his life at home or schedule has been bothering him if u are as shy as he is then u should wrie him a note sayin u interested in him or just give him ur numba!
2006-09-13 09:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by EMO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking him seems like a better way to find out than asking us.
2006-09-13 09:45:05 · answer #11 · answered by SJohnson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋