Help again this a diff. question?
I really like this girl, but we happen to be really really good freinds with, she aslo thinks im hot and really funny, so i decided to ask her out, howveer she said that since were really good freinds it might be a little weird... so her r my 2 questions
1. How do i get her to look past that ?
2. We are hangin out friday night, how should i act around her to get her?
Plz help i really like her
2006-09-13 09:38:28 · 13 answers · asked by dirtracr171 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she really thinks you're hot, she might be playing hard to get. Girls really like to play head games when they are younger.
2006-09-13 09:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You don't necessarily need to worry about making her look past it. She knows you are interested in more than a friendship, right? If so, then you have done all you need to do. The rest is up to her. You could ask her why she thinks it would be weird?! Being friends first will only make the relationship stronger because you have already developed a level of trust with each other.
2. Be yourself!!! If you start acting different, she will pick up on it, and THAT would be weird. She obviously enjoys your company. Girls like a challenge. That may sound shallow, but it is so true! Don't make yourself appear to be needy or desperate. Just be yourself, have a good time, and let things happen as they may. Good luck!!
2006-09-13 16:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well #1 you already did the worst possible thing, became friends... I know that once you head into that kinda relationship (friendship) that all bets are off, unless you are both drunk and have an excuse in the morning... lol got it
#2 when your hanging out with her you really cant change anything unless its just you and her and you have to make solid advances and while that is going on tell her how you feel, its a roll of the dice after that.
2006-09-13 16:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reassure her that it will only get as weird as she allows it to get. If she's afraid of the relationship ending in a big fight that means you can't even be friends anymore, then that's something you'll have to reassure her about - that you'll be able to still be friends even if the dating thing doesn't work out.
If you can't do this while telling the truth, then please don't date this girl. And if you're at the point where you can no longer be "just friends" with this girl - she either has to date you or get out of your life - then don't worry about question #2; feel free to act like the schmuck you've become.
2006-09-13 16:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Tell her you can't just be her friend, since you really really like her alot. Express your feelings for her, would be a good start and don't leave out anything tell her exactly how you feel and then juss ask her if she feels the same way about you...that would probably be the best thing to do in your case.
shelbz
2006-09-13 16:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by *Robert & Kalika's Momma* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, there are three things you can do to impress/win her over:
1. Show her your nunchuck skills.
2. Show her your computer-hacking skills.
3. Bake her a cake OR draw a portrait of her.
She will realize you are awesome, and look past the fact that you two are really good friends.
2006-09-13 16:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls make excuses a lot. When she says she wants to be friends, its because she's not interested.
1. to look past it, just get over it. find someone esle.
2. act how you normally would act in front of her
2006-09-13 16:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by booyah-baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down first
be gentle to her
and just be patient
explain to her that you really have a lot of feeling for her and that if she would look past being friends it just might work
but make sure you give her her space and be patient
i am pretty sure she will come around
2006-09-13 16:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by chickwitbadattitude91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a hug when u meet her and when u guys go to your location, when the time is right move in and give her a peck on her hand, then on her cheek, then give her a kiss if she resists say ur sorry... and u got carried away by her beauty... but if she dosent she is yours man...give me the 10 points pls... choose ma answer a s best
2006-09-13 16:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by Lil'So 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i think you should just tell her that she is the one u think about non stop and u wanna give it a try ..and if it seems too weird then go back to being friends....
and thnx for the answer to my question!
:-)
2006-09-13 16:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by cutie7191 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋