For example I am a 26 year old Voluptuous Puerto Rican Female and the guy I'm seeing is 20, Black and Thin. Where I am rather outgoing he is very quiet and reserved...we are basic opposites. But I'm also the most happiest, content and sexually satisfied that I've ever been and he say's the same...but I have the sneaky suspicion that people (friends, family and co-workers) are laughing at us? What is your opinion?
2006-09-13 09:32:46 · 11 answers · asked by Angelina C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't seem like that big an age gap to me.
A big age gap is the 27 year old I used to know who was with a woman of 55, or my 21 year old friend who used sleep with a 36 year old. 6 years is nothing.
2006-09-13 09:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by DS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly happy with him don't let anyone bother you. It's your life and you are doing nothing wrong. So many people look at age as a really big deal, but I think that is ridiculous! I am dating a man who is 5 years older than I am and when we first started dating, friends, family and co-workers joked around about us and poked fun. But, once they realized that we were both serious about our relationship, they backed off and stopped teasing so much. If your friends are really laughing at you, just ignore it, you are happy & you are with a great guy and that is what really matters. Your friends will eventually get over it and the laughing will stop, just give it time!
2006-09-13 09:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by kristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it crosses my mind that the woman has money, but more often than not, I'm impressed by the man. It makes me think he's got his head on straight, and can see how wonderful it can be to date an older woman. Your age difference (6 years) is really *nothing* in the long run, anyway. What bugs me is to see a much older man with a much younger woman...really, what would they possibly have to discuss?
2006-09-13 09:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by Nightwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably are.
Im 30 and there is no way in hell i would date a man under 30 only for the simple reason that most men dont mature till they are 30.
But if you like this guy and he makes you happy and the most important thing (I was your age when my sex drive went into overdrive) satisfying you, then to hell what everyone around you are saying or thinking.
Do what makes you happy.
2006-09-13 09:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With only 6 years difference in your ages unless you are telling people , how would they know ? Have fun live your life and don't worry what others think !!!
2006-09-13 09:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrond with that my little girl's dad is 5 years younger then me, but that didn't work out cuz' when it was new it was great and 6years later he was still being a kidand i left him cuz' he wouldn't grow up
2006-09-13 09:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think there's anything wrong with it, but i personally wouldn't want to be with somebody younger than i am ...it would make me feel uncomfortable just like if a guy was shorter than me
2006-09-13 09:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think the woman is rich.
2006-09-13 09:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if ur happy - dont think about other ppl opinions
2006-09-13 09:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by irena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if you r happey and he is happey what is the point to this qwestion
2006-09-13 09:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by tanner s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋