I'm really nervous and need advice on asking a girl I've been friends with since last year. She would be the first girl I ask out and that part is not helping.
2006-09-13 09:25:48 · 15 answers · asked by B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm really nervous and need advice on asking a girl I've been friends with since last year. She would be the first girl I ask out and that part is not helping. The dance isn't untill October 7, so I do have a little time.
2006-09-13 09:49:05 · update #1
Aww...buy her a rose and put it in her locker with a note saying that you like her a lot because you think shes (insert compliments here) and ask her if she would like to go to Homecoming with you. Then at the dance during a slow song ask her if she would go out with you.
2006-09-13 09:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What I did to get over the worrying of asking a girl out is simply asking yourself what is the worst thing that could happen. Okay well she could say “no”, so what if she does two things can happen you can either try talking to her show more interest and than try again or simply accept her response and look for someone else. Or she may laugh at you worse thing that could happen; okay yea it sucks but at least you can walk away knowing she isn't the right girl for you. If you really want to get her going if she laughs at you just simply say "at least I was nice enough to be gentlemen"; if you really want to get back also say "guess I was wrong about you". If you two have been friends for a year, the chances of her saying “no” are very unlikely. She obviously knows you well, she may feel she can trust you and feel comfortable with you. I think you’ll be okay – Good Luck!!!
2006-09-13 16:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by glenn s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait too long for 3 reasons:
1) you're going to start acting differently without even knowing it, and she might wonder what's up.
2) The sooner you ask, the easier, so you don't have it hanging over you.
3) Ask her before someone else beats you to it!
Also ask her in a very fun and nonchalant way so that she doesn't think it's a big deal to you. Tell her that you can't think of anyone you'd have more fun with than her. That will make her so happy without adding any element of romance that may put a strain on your friendship. If anything, if you approach it that way, it will strengthen your friendship whether it goes in the romance direction or not.
Good luck. Don't think; just do it! (and have fun)
2006-09-13 16:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask her in person and in private.
Ask her if she has a date for homecoming yet, and if she says no ask if she would like to go with you.
The day you ask, dress well and have particularly good hygiene.
2006-09-13 16:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if she wants to go with you, but in a friendly way. Don't make it sound like a date at that point. If she goes your in, then durring homecoming, just start talking and tell her how you feel. if thats how it is, if you want to stay friends tehn just ask her to come with you.
2006-09-13 16:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be shy man, just ask her if she can hang out some time, you know her well enough, maybe you can walk around and talk, and then pop the question.
2006-09-13 16:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well i am a girl and if a boy i just ment last year wanted to ask me out i would want him too get me a rose or sophin well let me give u a tip that girls like to get gifts like choclate, or roses
2006-09-13 16:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sadie.♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way around it. just ask her. maybe you can find out somehow if she is already going with someone else so that you wont feel like an idiot if you ask her and she says no. just get up the courage, and ask her. maybe give her flowers when you do, i think that would be sweet!
2006-09-13 16:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by sx_rx_rocknroll 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u have not ask a girl out and u r what 15 that is pathetic
2006-09-13 16:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by tanner s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Suck it man. Tell her to go with you. Say, "Go to homecoming with me." Ask if you know she would. Be confident!
2006-09-13 16:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by spacecommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋