2006-09-13 09:24:43 · 10 answers · asked by cheercheer31 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well uh no my rep isn't always 2 say yes, thank you very much, when guys ask me out (outside of school where i don't have any problems w/ being left out!) and i say no i always feel like i'm to harsh i no its going to hurt them, but i was just looking for some polite ways to do it. thank you to those who tried to help me other than the others who gave rude remarks and i guess really didn't even understand my question!!!!
2006-09-13 14:02:14 · update #1
Unfortunately, you really can't NOT hurt his feelings. Turning someone down can be done in a lot of ways. "Our friendship is valuable to me and I don't want to ruin it." That's one I've used in the past and even though I'm not friends with him anymore, it worked at the time. Or if he's not a friend just "Ya know, I'm just not really looking at the moment. May be later." Or something along those lines. Good luck, my friend.
2006-09-13 09:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Miranda M. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk about confusing. About two question ago you were not being noticed in school and no one seemed to care. They didn't even noticed you didn't go on a school trip. Now you're worried about your rep and how to tell a guy no? Here's a thought. Stop worrying about your rep (whatever it may be).
2006-09-13 16:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say no thankyou....in a polite way! If you go out with him, and he finds out that you dont really like him, it will hurt him anyway! As far as your rep.......um, why would your rep be ruined? Be true to you, dont worry about other peoples opinions.......
2006-09-13 16:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by charlaine p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just say you don't really have time to date or do anything for that matter due to the fact of school or whatever busy thing you are doing right now.
2006-09-13 16:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by vixeneyz_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"if"--?
WHEN he asks you out, don't forget to work a thank-you in your conversation with him
does not "ruining [your] rep" mean that you're nice to people?
include him in a group activity
maybe one of your other peeps and he will hook up
2006-09-13 16:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rep? If you're that hung over on yourself dear I don't have to much advice for you.
2006-09-13 16:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ruining your rep as being easy? thats a tough one..
2006-09-13 16:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is your rep that you always answer "yes"??? If so, will you sleep w/ me.....
2006-09-13 16:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what the hell kinda rep you got??
2006-09-13 16:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by *JC* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just say "No Thanks, and sorry"
Other than that... you really can't avoid hurting him
Unfortunately in life, you can't please everyone
2006-09-13 16:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by benh316 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋