should i go after her, or leave that thought alone? shes sooo hot and i love everything about her. im unsure what to do though
2006-09-13 09:23:26 · 33 answers · asked by 1234567890 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are so in love with her why don´t you have chat on this with your best friend...come on... If he considers you as good friend as you do... He will perfectly understand and let it through, what will not be fair is that you let go someone you love for not facing it with your friend...
2006-09-13 09:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I take it your best friend is a guy? I don't think it matters though, but I have been on both sides of this and I have to tell you, I don't think it is wrong but you have to aknowledge that your relationship with your best friend will never be the same. I think that it changes everything between you and your friend. For example. My best friend is a guy. He fell for my sister and I did not mind but then it was like I just did not matter anymore and then after they broke it off I had to hear him dump all this **** on me about my sister and it was uncomfortable, but being his friend I dealt with it anyway. I just think things are so different now. I mean no offense but I knew him before my sister and I guess it kind of makes me get irritated and maybe a little jealous. (not in a love way) I think that you need to talk to your friend about it first for sure and make sure that you are willing to deal with things that might come up because of this . Then go from there.......Sorry if that was a bit winded.
2006-09-13 09:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't imagine what her being the sister of your best friend has to do with it. You would think he'd be delighted to have her with you, since he knows what a fine fellow you are, right? Right? He should be battin for you 100% to make it work with his sister. Ask her out - take it from there. Don't tell her that you love everything about her on your first date - let her warm up to ya a bit! Also, it's nice that you think she's sooo hot, but make sure she understands you appreciate her other qualities, too. She has other qualities, right? good luck!!
2006-09-13 09:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you the truth when you're in love and know it's true love there's nothing and no one who can stop you or change you thoughts. As long as your close friend knows what you think of his sister. I know how guys act when it comes to their sisters ( I have 4 brothers). But remember no matter what happens with your relationship will never be the same (with your close friend). So I wish you luck in what you decied if you think this lady is worth it, then do it follow you heart and not what other people think. ;-)
2006-09-13 09:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about it. Sometimes this can be ok and work out sometime it will not. Chances are as he is your best friend that she has similar values to yours and standards such that you find her company along with the company of your best friend acceptable.
But I had a friend who had been my friend forever along with her family. Her younger brother grew up and became quite an attractive man who had liked me a long time. But his mother who was my friend told me he whines alot wants his way always he will drive you crazy and his sister said he is not good about keeping a job. So I said to him that your family have been my friends forever such that if it did not work out I would loose them. He was doing things like taking off his clothing in front of me. He was a good friend also he probably always will be but he was going through a divorce and was having a difficult time feeling attractive because his wife had cheated on him so much. He is keeping a job now is married to a woman he had problems with for awhile who cheated on him then quit but it is working out for him and her now he loves her alot. She had just had a divorce and wasn't ready to commit whereas he was so she dated a bit more while he still chased her down. I do not like her as I know she hurt him but that is his business not mine.
2006-09-13 09:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Faerieeeiren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats your problem....Are you or her married to someone else or if you are both single Go for it or do you want, or do you want your best friend to hold your hand!? The world is big out there so take all the opportunities that are on offer, so long as it is legal. Good Luck.
2006-09-13 09:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well
Man Nutting is better than Being Honest and Real
You Love her for sure
and she love you
well Next step is
Take her Brother Out one day
and Explain to him how you feel
because i am sure her brother will love that if you act as a man
because if you act as a man with him
you will act as a man with his sister too
And remember
You can't hide for long
so Just be Honest To Your feeling
and honest to your Friend
and be Honest to your Friendship
and above of all
Be Serious, and be True to Your self man
Go For it
Talk to him
he is human like you
peace out man and Good Luck
i like Honest Guys like you
peace out Yo
2006-09-13 09:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by Momomada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your best friend. it could be a really good thing...i say go for it. Just make sure you try really hard, and appreciate her if you get her...make sure that if for some reason things didn't work out between you too, that your friendship with the other party would still stay in tact... good luck (btw you are very handsome 8-) )
2006-09-13 09:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by shasta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you broach the subject with your best friend? He'll let you know if he has an issue with it or not. Although if she has feeling for you it shouldn't matter what he says. He'll accept the relationship after awhile especially if it's serious. He might just say "don't hurt my sister or I'll hurt you" kinda thing though.
2006-09-13 09:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both grown adults and you don't often come across someone who is that special to you in this life - go for it. Take it cool tho, try and get an idea on her feelings for you. All the best matey x
2006-09-13 09:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by paula_steward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋