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I really like this girl, but we happen to be really really good freinds with, she aslo thinks im hot and really funny, so i decided to ask her out, howveer she said that since were really good freinds it might be a little weird... so her r my 2 questions

1. How do i get her to look past that ?
2. We are hangin out friday night, how should i act around her to get her?

Plz help i really like her

2006-09-13 09:16:36 · 8 answers · asked by dirtracr171 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

8 answers

i'd say, let her know that u Really like her, and it's gonna be hard to be "just friends". if she wants to be only friends, u respect that. but that may mean that u won't be as close anymore, cuz u like her that much.

in the end, u know ur feelings, let her know, and either she accepts or rejects. don't be afraid of rejections, just know how to handle it in the most Positive, Healthy way. if that means it hurts too much to be her friend, see her w/ other guys, then u have to let her go. don't put urself in the position to get any more hurt. and she'll have to decide if she wants to cut back on ur "close" friendship, or see if she likes you back.

2006-09-13 09:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0 0

Ask her about how she feels about you. If she has feelings as well, but shes just afraid of ruining the relationship you already have, then ask her to try gradually doing things that a couple would do. If she doesn't agree to that, then let it be and respect her decision. When you hang out, dont act like nothings happened, that will just make things more awkward. Make sure to bring it up, and if things aren't going as you'd hoped (aka she doesn't feel the same way), then dont push it, it will get annoying. Dont be too oncoming, that might seem desperate or your trying too hard. Say sweet things to her, like, "You look really pretty tonight", or "Your the most _____ person I've ever met." Things that will flatter her. Try to lay off the physical things. You'll never know if you dont give it a shot! Good luck.

2006-09-13 09:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You sound like you already know what to do...as far as being yourself! Take it easy pal. She's not going anywhere and you practically got her. What you need to do is talk with her, and I'm not talking about the buddy-buddy thing since she's got you as one of her "friends"...yuck! You want her to see, or hear, about your insides; your expectations and dreams (about that special girl). Stop beating around the bush with her as well...she gave up the possibility of sex with you since you earned her respect for your 'privates'! Now quit 'p****-footin' around and get real..! Tell here how much she means to you, but in more than a friendship way! Agree with her that starting out as friends is important, but that you would like her to know how you really feel about her! Good luck fella...and go get her!

2006-09-13 09:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by HotInTX 5 · 0 0

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2016-12-12 07:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Alcohol is a sure fire way ti make her not think, But seriously, go into it with the notion of friendhsip with sex. So, friends with benefits. But lether know from the get go. DO NOT LEAD HER ON.

2006-09-13 09:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by ldog 1 · 0 0

Keep doing what your doing and do a little more. Be a gentleman and do things that she will remember long after the night is over.

2006-09-13 09:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0 0

Try a different approach. Like a nice dinner, movie, and maybe something will blossom.

2006-09-13 09:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by lariat_sonata 3 · 0 0

1) you cant
2) normal

2006-09-13 09:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by *JC* 3 · 0 0

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