What would you think, please answer truthfully?

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Ok.. this is what a girl that i like replied to my email, askin how she felt about me,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

ok, now shes 13 I'm 15. We've been friends since like I wuz 7. Now it is totally obvious, because she makes herself perfectly clear, that she wants nothing more than to be friends. I am respeceting that, and giving her space, we havent talked about it 4 3 weeks. My question is, does she like me at all, or is she scared, cuz she says she doesnt want to ruin a friendship??

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3 hours ago
But, like a few months ago, it was completely obvious she liked me, I mean people thought we were dating, then she found out I liked her, and she reall backed off. And she told her mom, who she is really close to , that she is really scared, because she doesnt want to take the chance of ruining the friendship. But what should I do/ think:? Because, now she is like totally all over these other guys, like she used to be with me, and it rips my heart out. And please dont tell me I'm to young, I have like many girls, but none like her. I've been trying to let this go forever, but it is really really hard, because I really care for her, I would do anything in this world, anything to be with her, but I want her to be happy , and if shes not happy with me, thats fine. But what should i do?

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5 hours ago
I mean she's never beenin a relationship, so she could be scared, will anything ever happen in the future, I mean I am respecting her wishes, and she knows that, We havent talked about it for a long time, could anything possibly happen in the future??

Answer 1

I'd say she's mostly scared i was in the same situation.. i liked this guy but he had been my friend, not that i didnt want to be with him but i was scared of what he'd think of me as a girlfriend, at the same time i was scared of loosing his friendship, but to be honest if she really liked you so much and her reason was being scared she would have talked to you in person and not stopped talking to you.. as i grew up i realized it was stupid of me to be scared cause i never did go out with the guy till now we are still good friends, so god know what would have beeen right. but the truth is if i would have been with him i wouldnt have my boyfriend of 3 years that i love and iam planning on marrying.
if i were you just let her go, give someone else a chance and be there for her. don;t waste time to think of what it could have been life's too short enjoy it and good luck!!!

Answer 2

wow... well me and this guy were friends for a few years and two months ago he asked me out he is 15 and I'm 13 well i was hesitant at first because i didn't want it to mess up are friend she eventually i said yes then two weeks later we broke up because it just wasn't the same now we dont really talk at all so my advice would be to leave it at a distance in less Ur like madly in love with her. But yes i bet she really does like you like that but knows what could happen GOOD LUCK though

Answer 3

Just move on. Look at all this endless banter!! You don't need a girlfriend..you need a boyfriend because you babble on like a woman!!

Answer 4

yes

Answer 5

seriously? your 15??? she's 13???

girls are sooooo mature!!

Answer 6

grow up