the reason im asking is cause we are sort of starting to hang out again and she wanted to be honest, she says it was a mistake sleeping with them and now shes learned her lesson. Do you forgive her?? or is it something i should just give up on?
2006-09-13 09:05:13 · 10 answers · asked by dewman_30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have feelings for her still... perhaps you should work on it and forgive her
However, if you have lost that "lust" or "passion," for her, than you might as well move on to other women. You are probably young still (as am I) and to be honest, it isn't worth getting worked up over
2006-09-13 09:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by benh316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you were broken up when she was with those other guys then she wasn't cheating on you which I suppose is a plus but 3 other guys is quite a few there. Shouldn't sex be between two people who really love and care about each other? How long were you two apart for her to have been with 3 other guys. If the length isn't too long she doesn't seem like best girl to be with and yeah people make mistakes but she made mistakes with 3 people although that doesn't sound like such a large number I find that number to be pretty big. People do deserve second chances so if you can honestly look past what she has done and truly do love her and would want to be with her again then you already know what the answer is but if it's just for the intimacy then you shouldn't get back together with her. There are plenty of other nice girls out there who wouldn't make those "mistakes" so go find yourself a nice girl. =).
I believe jepa8196 is correct. I think it would be different if you were the one who was with other people. I know if a boyfriend ever did that and wanted to get back together with me I wouldn't be able to get back together with him. If it were one then maybe but three I would say no and I would expect him to feel the same way if I hooked up with 3 other people.
2006-09-13 16:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kir3i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinks its the fact that other guy's were all up in that kitty cat that bothers you
if you cant get over it then go find yourself a virgin.
Good Luck with that,
most girls out there now days have slept with more than a few guy's
hey most of them have 2 or 3 kids to go along with that. Lol
Get over it or stay single that way you can do as many girls as you want. Peace
2006-09-13 16:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up? Yep. Would it be different if you had sex with three girls? Of course it would. She doesn't think she made a mistake though, she's just saying that to make you feel better. She will keep doing it to.
2006-09-13 16:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by jepa8196 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife did the same thing, only it was a lot more guys. We have worked through it and are doing fine now.
2006-09-13 16:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what splitting up does...it allows you to have sex with other folks. Get over it or get over her.
2006-09-13 16:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its none of your or her business what she did and you did while apart. Get over it. Or find someone else.
2006-09-13 16:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go have sex with 6 girls
2006-09-13 16:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing you two broke up then.
2006-09-13 16:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were broken up, it is none of your business. It is not like she cheated on you.
2006-09-13 16:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋