i need a good way to tell him to put it were the sun dont shine. any great ideas?
2006-09-13 08:57:44 · 39 answers · asked by soxgirl0780 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you want nothing to do with him, let him know with your actions. do not answer when he calls and do not call him back.
2006-09-13 08:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by WxEtte 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a boyfriend or just tell him you are seeing someone and they are everything he's not. My boyfriend's ex called a lot after I moved to his state. Probably because I was a threat to her little plan of trying to control him and get him back after she screwed him over countless times. Sometimes an ex won't give up until you put your foot down. She even called and said if it doesn't work out between us that she's still there and he can call her. He doesn't think anything of it, but I can see right through her. You could always just change your number if nothing will get through to him. good luck!
2006-09-13 09:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah tell him okay we can meet and then have him make reservations at an expensive restaraunt. Call and tell him you'll be late but have him order the steak and lobster for you (oh yeah you want soup and salad). Probabley $50.00 and a bottle of expensive merlot. Then don't show and email or text him a picture of you dancing or flirting with someone else the next day saying sorry out for drinks with the girls and got distracted. Trust me he will not call again. Or you could just tell him to go f himself.
2006-09-13 09:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by SassyFras85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet the more you advoid him, the more he is calling. Men have a thing about getting what they cant have.
I would just tell him straight out that there is no chance for us to get back together and I would appreciate it if you do not contact me anymore. Dont answer his calls or emails or whatever.
After a while, he should get the hint. If not, you could always scare him and tell him you are going to get a restraining order. (That should make him back off lol)
2006-09-13 09:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're being respectful to her with the help of focussing in user-friendly terms on her and not having touch with your ex's, yet she's being selfish and desiring to hold onto hers! does not sound promising to me in any respect. besides, tell her each thing you're telling us. tell her why this is beside the point, and factor out to her which you're doing all your proportion of the activity. next step could be to insist which you computer screen her communications together with her ex's and often times connect interior the communique or despite. If she has no longer something to disguise ever, she would not have a difficulty with you doing so. If she has a difficulty with all those circumstances and behaves immaturely... this is advisable to evaluate going your separate techniques...
2016-12-18 09:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly how u just said it, if nothing works, then be rude and honest. tell him that he needs to take a hike, better yet, find a better man then make sure he knows about it! It worked for me, we were together for 2 1/2 years and he dumped me for an ex GF but then he kept texting and callin and trying to make me jealous which made no sense cuz HE DUMPED me, I made it know that later I found a boyfriend and he was so jealous, he didn't even bother to try coming after me anymore. good luck!
2006-09-13 09:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by I Love my boys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds familiar to me! I moved away after he cheated...and 2 years later he also moved to the same town. I tried to be nice....but I NEVER had any time for him (or at least that's what I made him think). Sometimes it was hard, but he finally moved on and now we are both happy and living separate lives.
BE STRONG!!!!!! Once a cheater.....probably always a cheater....
2006-09-13 09:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont answer his calls.. EVER! I have the same problem and me and his guy have been broken up for 4 1/2 yrs now, but he still calls like once a month just to see if I am alive... I never answer. Just ignore him.
2006-09-13 09:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by bnelly05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would tell him u r sleeping with someone else. and he didn't cheat on u b/c yall were together for so long. people cheat on people b/c they have no respect for themself or anyone else. or u could just flat out tell him to stick it where the sun don't shine. hope that helps
2006-09-13 09:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him [don't e-mail or tex him, or he'll have evidence]... "If you ever bother me again, I'll spread the rumor I broke-up with you because I knew the last girl you cheated on me with had genital warts, and I didn't want to catch them from you. And it doesn't matter if women believe it or not, they'll stay away from you... just in case!"
2006-09-13 09:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly that, you can't be kind with a clingy ex. It will only confuse him & make the situation harder for you to handle.
Already lived through that life love, good luck! and be strong!
CT
2006-09-13 09:00:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋