This is a guy tha I met on college; and we had something going on; but then one day he just walked away on me... He told me I LOVE YOU; but how can I know he was real? I felt real, but was it?
2006-09-13 08:35:41 · 7 answers · asked by Crazy in love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a guy tha I met on college; and we had something going on; but then one day he just walked away on me... He told me I LOVE YOU; but how can I know he was real? It felt real, but was it?
We didn't have sex or anything, we did kissed, but now he is avoiding me...
The thing is that he is going to become a catholic priest, but I think he is confused.
2006-09-13 08:44:17 · update #1
Is imposible for me to talk to him, he is avoiding me completely...
And I don't understad why; because we still talked after we kissed an all, but then all of the sudden he stoped talking to me alltogether
2006-09-13 08:54:28 · update #2
if I were you find a way to talk to him seriously.. and you will feel it if his feelings for you is true.. just tell how you feel and just be yourself too..
2006-09-13 08:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by yummy _me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a silly question at all.
u need : time, action, words, and put them all together. what he says may mean he loves u, may mean he's lying. u don't know. what u can do is see if he ACTS like he loves u...that would match his words and his actions. then, u use Time to see if his true colors show; is he always respectful, caring, loving, appreciative, affectionate, ready to take care of u? most likely then he is trustworthy, and part of it is just trusting in him. but if he is lazy, weird, says things but makes u feel bad, treats u badly... u have to realize that most likely he doesn't care as much as he SAYS.
this is why, for example, w/ my boyfriend right now...we have a great relationship. but i have this thing that i've learned, and it's that at 1 year 1/2 mark, we both need to be sure if we want to marry each other. if we are unsure, we have to break up. and he tried to bring up marriage recently after a huge fight, and i told him "don't talk to me about marriage until the 1 1/2 year mark" (we are currently at 9 mo). this is because u may Say and Do things at this time, but change ur mind tomorrow! so, i am not going to think about marrying him and then get disappointed. i am going to give both of us ample time to get to know each other, and see how well we trust and work together. if i don't trust him in 6 months, i have to break it off. that way, u kind of find out if his words match w/ his actions (ie talking about marriage, and then doing it). same w/ saying "i love u"... sometimes men THINK they love the girl, because of their physical feelings, but after sex, all of a sudden he is looking at someone else!! he wasn't exactly lying, but he doesn't know what he himself wants or needs... so as a woman u have to be Smart, Fair, and keep up yourself. work on urself, make sure u are a Strong, Confident, Successful, Wonderful person and Woman, and expect those qualities in a Good Man. THEN u can work together and see if the words match the actions..until then, he may be a player, he may not. u gotta have expectations for urself, the partner, and the relationship. good luck
2006-09-13 08:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you sleep with him? Sometimes a guy will do that to get into your pants and once he gets what he wants he walks away. If not, then I think should have a serious talk with him and find out what is really going on!
2006-09-13 08:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's lying and he's sleeping with someone else. You'll know his feelings are real because he'd be stalking u and shiht......it's weird but all my friends that be telling there girls they love them....they following them all around...calling them all the time. They don't walk away !!!!! NEVER!!
2006-09-13 08:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by hard o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never trust a man in college.
2006-09-13 08:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny when it comes to men there is no figureing them out lol sorry babe you just never know they can tell the truth one minite and the next lieing out their two front teeth. sorry hunny good luck though
signed
wild native american woman18
2006-09-13 08:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by A Wild Native American Woman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sometimes very hard to tell if guys feelings are true or not... only time will tel!
2006-09-13 08:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by Help??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋