Hi guys, i wanna tell this guy how i feel about him and i think he feels the same way. Only thing is a big part of me wants him to ask me, because i've never told a guy how i feel about them before or asked them out, i though that was the guys job, hehe! Please any advice on this, should i tell him how i feel first or ask him out for afew drinks??? I would really appreciate some help here.
2006-09-13 08:28:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, i had the same dilemma nearly 7 years ago, i choose to tell him how i felt, and now after nearly 7 years together, we are happily married (since June this year!!)
Guys like a gal asking them, it flatters them and they quite often find it a turn on, so go ahead gal, the worst that can happen is him saying no...
Ask him out, maybe for a drink or the cinema or something...
GOOD LUCK!!! x x
2006-09-13 08:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by truelylo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and ask him out! You know many men like that the woman takes the bull by the horns first.
What do you have to lose? Also it isn't the 50's anymore. We are in the new millennium ya know.
Have a nice time at lunch or talking to this fellow over drinks. Anyways good day!
2006-09-13 15:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dimples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man would greatly appreciate when YOU will be the one who tells him. If you feel sure enough about your feelings about him tell him.
Like Vonda Shepard sings: Tell him
If he feels the same way you'll be happy together, if not, you'll know it and you'll be able to consider whether to stay with him or to find another friend.
So, go ahead!
2006-09-13 15:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Pavel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay its the 21st century just be bold and ask him if he fancies a bevvy ,he might like a girl with a bit of confidence.if he declines dont worry there r plenty more fish in the sea good luck
2006-09-13 15:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by mulhollandemily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the guys job. Let me put it this way. Guys always want to work to get a girl. If they have to do no work to get you they will take you for granted and act like they have you wrapped around their finger. Wait for him and if he doesn't ever come then it wasn't meant to be.
2006-09-13 15:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is 2006. Its an equal opportunity asker outer! LOL. Say you want to have coffee and see if he will go with you or something. Have fun and I hope he says yes.
2006-09-13 15:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest going for a few drinks and take your relationship slowly from there.
2006-09-13 15:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by gerbiltamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a few for Dutch courage and just go for it! Be a bit coy and demure and I guarantee he'll say yes!
2006-09-13 15:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you surely don't want to scare him off, get to know each other and go on some dates then tell him how you feel after that. if you still like him.
2006-09-13 15:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself & go for what you know . The most that can happen is he will say no to your suggestions. Saves you the trouble of wondering.
2006-09-13 15:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋