I met him and lived with him for a year.We are apart now since he get back to USA with his wife and I went back here in my country.He calls me everyday for 4 years now and send me money constantly.He never divorce his wife and says we are just friends for now.I got a baby with another man that didn't work out and admitted it to him but he still does the same.We never see each other four years ago now, just calls on phone.He's not quitting on me.On what percentage would u think we can be together in the future? Is that mean he still loves me despite of 4 years without physical attachment and with his wife beside him not me or just got used of hearing my voice like its part of his system already?
2006-09-13 08:24:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I get the feeling he may still love you and/or wants to have you available incase he ever gets to your country. When a guy won't get a divorce there is usually children involved or he has too much to loose if he leaves his wife. That can apply to gals too!!!
If it were me I would cut off the relationship as far as the money is concerned. It's nice to have but it only makes the tie stronger.
2006-09-13 08:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he has any plan for you in his future. I think you are someone he cares about and has gotten used to in his life and the only way you would ever figure into his plans in the future would be if him and his wife were no longer together. Hopefully you are living your life to its fullest under the assumption that you two will never be together and not putting your life on hold for something that will probably never happen.
2006-09-13 15:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of yourself know he is married and continuing with this. Just because he sends you money dosnet mean you have to accept it or if he calls you shouldnt answer to it. What are you teaching you child when he or she grows up. You should have more respect for yourself as well as more respect for his wife as a woman to stop this. You really should think about what you are doing.
2006-09-13 15:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sori to say tis but to be frank,i dun feel there is anything positive will happen between u n him in the future but its gd to have someone so concern n care for u
2006-09-13 15:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like yall are doin to much to me.
2006-09-13 15:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by mamacita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for him. He may just enjoy your phone calls!!!
2006-09-13 15:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋