My bf broke up w/ me (see previous question) and he says he wants me to leave him alone. We've sorta been thru this before and we always get back together. I want to respect his wishes but at the same time, if I give him time to see what happens between us he might move on w/out me. I figure if I stay in the picture it would be better than giving him too much space. What do you think?
2006-09-13 08:07:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you can do little things, but no stalker ishness, but sometimes when people are hurt or angry they need time to think things throughl. If he doesn't get this time he might resent you more cause his feelings had to be burried.
2006-09-13 08:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... well you can push the situation too much. but if you push it just the right amount, you will get him back. you have to decide if you really want him back, or if you just dont know how to move on. me and my bf had broken up about 2 weeks ago, (it was my fault, but he was the one that broke up with me) we said we'd still be friends. so we were talking one day and i told him how i felt. i told him how sorry i was that if what i did hurt his feelings... and we ended up getting back together. so what you need to do is email him, write to him about how you feel, and whatever it was that you guys broke up for..just talk to him, dont let him go so easily, make it a point that if he sticks by his decision to break up, there will be no coming back. (thats what i did) and if he really loves u he will find a way to let you back in. if he doesnt then you have to be strong enough to let him go... and who knows, he may change his mind later on....
2006-09-13 15:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by chstarponchild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must do what your heart thinks is right. If you two belong together then you will be together but if not then you both must agree to move on. The heart is a crazy thing it is uncontrolable and it makes you feel ways you thought impossible.
If it wasn't important to you it wouldn't hurt so much. Go with your first instinct it is always the right choice.
I hope all things are well with you and i hope your babies are well. Goodluck to you and goodbye Vanessa.
2006-09-13 19:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by eman1205 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you letting him do that to you again? It borders abuse to mess with people's emotions repeatedly. Move on without him. I t may suck for a while, but in the end you'll be better off. And I'm really sorry if you don't wanna hear this, but, you can't force people to keep you in their life. Sounds like he's made it pretty clear..............he's just not into you.
2006-09-13 15:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by rere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is exaqctly what happened with me and my ex. She wouldnt let me breath let him have time to miss u if not u will just remind him u r clingy,annoying and nagging. I bet when u call him u guys get into a argument. Give him space
2006-09-13 15:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you to leave him alone, then you should respect his wishes and do just that.
You should just move on with your life, especially if this has happened before. Why set yourself up for more heartache?
2006-09-13 15:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to go. let him go. You should know that you can't make someone want you. You deserve to be with someone who wants you all the time and won't play back and forth games with you. If he moves on, let him be someone else's problem.
2006-09-13 15:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you really need to back off and move on. Sometimes it's just over.
2006-09-13 15:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My crystal ball is in the shop for repairs right now.
2006-09-13 15:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he dont want you then move on it is not worth it
2006-09-13 15:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋