Is This What Women Expect From A Man.....?

Question

Just what is it that a women expects from a man....Should he be always trying to better himself financially and physically for her...Working extra hours(weekends) ...always keeping fit so that he always looking good for her...always trying to get a better car/house...just to let her know that he doing all this for her, and her love..going that extra bit just for her....not hold her hand or kiss her too often in-case she thinks i'm too 'clingly'.. waking up a 5am to brush my teeth, so that when she gets up to kiss me I have 'fresh breath'..always clean never looking sloppy/lazy...dressed up..never walking around half-dressed.....always thinking ahead on his toes 27/7.. at the moment i'm Trying to learn French.. so that i always have something to impress her with..................I' never really known any women, is that what they expect from a man....I never want her to think any less of me...or she dating/married the wrong man

Answer 1

wow!! Again you raise the bar for men!!! If a guy did HALF of what you just said Id consider myself really lucky - however it seems you think too much going into a relationship - which whilst its not a bad thing, I wonder if you allow yourself any time to actually enjoy it - or are you constantly preoccupied with whats next onyour list. I think you need to stop anayzing everything, yes stick to the obvious nice things you've listed, but dont put yourself in an early grave over it! Im sure the lady that you are doing this for will realise she has a gem and treat you accordingly. I hope she has the same consideration in return for that which you hold for her.

Answer 2

Bloody hell! If that's what you do then i'm sure many woman will appreciate the time and effort. But you have remember that many will either take advantage of your good nature or eventually be turned off.

At the moment you're dedicating your life to women, for their satisfaction and pleasure and whilst that is very chivalrous, you should not view yourself inferior to any person including women. When you go out with a woman respect should exist on both sides which means, ideally, there is a balance of effort from both sides. I can imagine some women being turned off by what you said since your image turns from companion to satisfier. There can never be mutal respect if your life is dedicated to making sure she is happy all of the time.

Now don't get me wrong, when you're in love that's what you'll want to do, make sure she's happy, but many times it isn't the superficial exterior actions you take, it's the kind of person you are and internal desicions you make that provide real happiness. I mean waking up at 5am to brush your teeth so that she smells fresh breath? That's nice but completey crazy. Life is about comprimises and waking up with slightly wiffy breath is just part of life, you bursh your teeth at night, gargle moutwash and that should be enough for anybody!

Listen, in my opinion you need to relax and go out and talk to women. Read some books about what women REALLY want. Sometimes looking sloppy is cute, so is walking half dressed. Sometimes a nice body is great but sometimes it doesn't happen and the right woman will understand that.

Seriously, go talk to women, makes friends with them and it'll open your eyes

Answer 3

Boy i sure hope this is an hypothetical question. If not what's this woman got on you, pray tell.

Your relationship sound more like a twenty five hour a day job. I do not think what you have outlined is what women expect from a man.

Personally yeah I would like my man to support me financially and well but not by working every hour of the day. What is the fun in that. yeah its nice for him to look good and be clean but wake at 5.30am to brush his teeth what? He does not need to be perfect cause I know I'm not perfect. If his breath is so bad I would prefer if he just avoided kissing first thing in the morning.

Its good for a guy to impress his gal right but pls. I sure hope she does the same for you mate. My advice be you, be comfortable do not run yourself to rags. Trying to be perfect can be a total turn off at times. Such people get mistreated. bet you she would think of more moronic things to deserve her. what a shame.

Answer 4

i think you care way too much. Be yourself. Eventually she is going to realize that your breath is not always fresh and that your not perfect. But if she loves you she will love your faults right along with everything else. If you try to hard you could push her away. I had an ex boyfriend who always tried to make me think he was perfect because he was so afraid i would find out that i picked the wrong guy. We lived together for 2 years. At the end of the two years i couldnt take it anymore....he pushed me away and i left him. Just be you! People can always tell when your being fake.

Answer 5

It sounds more like your conditioning/auditioning for a ridiculous role with all that crap you posted.

A woman wants a man who's human not superhuman. If I woke up every morning and my man's breath smelled liked Listerine I'd be scared shitless. I want a man who's confident in his own skin and himself. I don't want someone who tries to be perfect because then I miss out on the opportunity of seeing this person for who he really is. Money is great but after awhile diamonds are gonna get old and I'm going to miss just having a real decent conversation with a good man. So good luck on that.

Try being yourself. If she doesn't like it, move on to the next!

Answer 6

Well, Hmmm... women want someone who is going to love, respect, honor, and trust them. Some women who are gold diggers, and money hungry, want someone who can compare to them. Someone wealthy, cute, and always trying to impress other people. But to find true love, you have to be yourself. You dont have to dress up, and have money, a new car and house. Because one day you might not have all of that, and the girl may leave you because of it. But if you act like yourself, dress to the occasion, and treat her like you would treat your mother. Dont be too clingy, like calling her at work(unless its important) or following her everywhere, and always asking questions about what she doing and worrying about her. Get her flowers now and then, and always have manners. Girls will love you if you just remember these things!! Just love her like she is the only woman in the world, but dont treat her like it (I mean like wanting sex all the time) Some girls dont like all that.

Answer 7

It sounds like you are running yourself ragged! I think women want mostly to spend time with their man, not with the things he buys them. A nice car and house are great and also appreciated, but so is having time with you. I personally love every minute with my husband. I get mad when he works overtime. We have more than enough money and things in our lives. He showers me with kisses and hugs and I love it. He has gained a considerable amount of weight, and that is fine. I am glad he feels comfortable enough in our love to know I will love him no matter what. He is just as sexy in his Nike track pants as he is in an Armani suit. Your woman should love you for you, all of you, not for the things you give her.

Answer 8

you try too hard...

I want a man who will better himself for HIMSELF because it's something that he wants. And there is a point where you have what you want and you don't need to better yourself, be what you are. Learn french because you want to know it, not to impress some woman.. that's more impressive to me.

Answer 9

I WOULD HATE TO KNOW MY MAN WOULD FILL LIKE BEING W/ME WAS A FULL TIME JOB TO LOVE A MAN IS TO EXCEPT HIM FOR WHO HE IS AND I LIKE IT WHEN HE WALKS ARUND 1/2 DRESSED AND WHAT A MAN HAS MONEY HOUSE CAR SHOULD MATTER IF YOU LOVE HIM AND HE TREATS U WITH RESCEPT GEE BABE YOU WORK TOO HARD FOR THAT WOMEN I HAVE 3 ADULT SONS AND IF I SEEN THEM DOING THIS FOR A WOMAN I WOULD SIT HIM DOWN ANDTELL HIM WHAT DOES SHE DO 4 U? AND REMEMBER YOU ARE A GOOD MAN ... IF YOU WK AND HAVE FUN AND GOT YOUR LIFE IN ORDER 1GOD2 FLY AND THEN THINGS!! EVERTHING ELESE WILL FINE ITS PALCE HEY SLOW DOWN AND ENJOY LIFE AND IF SHE CANT EXCEPT YOU THEN TO HECK WITH HER THERE IS MORE FISH IN THE SEA FIND 1 THAT REALLY LOVES YOU

Answer 10

Is this wha women expect from a man..? Maybe this question be wrong and the right is: Is this what you expect from yourself?